Macaframalama
Master Don Juan
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LMFAO!Tell us the "ugly truth" as you see it.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LMFAO!Tell us the "ugly truth" as you see it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Being a bytch or any kind of shyt test.Can you answer these questions:
1. Tell me what they did to deserve being treated like sh1t.
Lie, cheat, flake, ghost, ignore.2. How to treat them like sh1t without ending up in jail or with restraining order? You must have something that they want or need? But in the 3rd-wave-feminist society, what do you have that they want/need? What possible power could you have over them except to happen to find a girl in a difficult financial circumstance?
Giving the bytch what she deserves. Teaching her she cant just act like a bytch and have things go her way.3. What will "treating them like sh1t" accomplish? Except to say "move to the next one" and the process just repeats itself.
Please.Scarcity mentality
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Women just plain don't want pvssies aka Mr. Nice guy. I don't even want to be near Mr. Nice guy, all the moaning and b1tching makes me sick to the stomach.The nice guy has no prayer against the @sshole.
The @sshole has no prayer against the good guy.
Women want good guys not @ssholes. They settle for @ssholes because the world is filled with nice guys that they cant stand.
Possibly. I don't disagree with you entirely.he does have some very good points that I am in agreement.
It's an open forum. I'll take whatever angle I choose.Let's look at the positive of his post and discuss that.
I know how to handle all kinds of bitches.treat poop like poop... treat gold like gold.
Doesn't take a genius to flush sh!t down the toilet.
You will know how to treat them after the screening process.
You are screening, right?
No?
You know, orbiters don't screen, either!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Gotta disagree with that.The nice guy has no prayer against the @sshole.
The @sshole has no prayer against the good guy.
Women want good guys not @ssholes. They settle for @ssholes because the world is filled with nice guys that they cant stand.
That's because the good guy won't allow them to treat him in this manner in the first place, so they likely never have been with one or for that matter could end up with one.Gotta disagree with that.
Women are not all the same. They go for different types of guys.
True most women can't get the alpha male because the alpha male has an abundance mentality. Only the beta male has a scarcity mentality enough to settle for one woman.
Much respect my man, but that shyt is dream world advice.That's because the good guy won't allow them to treat him in this manner in the first place, so they likely never have been with one or for that matter could end up with one.
If you find a woman who prefers and @sshole to a good guy my advice would be to run away very quickly.
The key element in this sentences is the conditional clause. What you (hypothetically) would do if you were in this situation with a "dime".I would cheat on that bytch without a second thought and keep fuking her until she realizes I've moved on or starts to act right.
You would rather shame your fellow man than put a trifling bytch in her place.The key element in this sentences is the conditional clause. What you (hypothetically) would do if you were in this situation with a "dime".
But you ain't. So you can't.
Your beta jealousy reveals your beta nature.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Surely you cannot be this dumb, my friend. What you are accusing me of doing is precisely what you are being called out on.....this is the textbook definition of projection.You would rather shame your fellow man than put a trifling bytch in her place.
Ego protection.That tells me everything I need to know about you my man.
That isn't a good guy. That is a nice guy.Much respect my man, but that shyt is dream world advice.
Women like strength and sex appeal. These bitches don't want good guys until they're old and used up. Good guys get @sshole's leftovers in most cases.
My friend is a good guy and has a dime girlfriend. The bytch is hot, I'll admit. But he's totally bitched in the relationship and gets disrespected. The bytch disrespects him right in front of me. Good guy my ass. I would cheat on that bytch without a second thought and keep fuking her until she realizes I've moved on or starts to act right. That's how you do it.
Good advice you give to our green friend. An "alpha" wouldn't haven't to be given this advice.@Spidah , what he or anyone says should and must not affect you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.