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    Girl with....BODY GUARD!? O.o

    So I go out to the bar to meet up with this girl and some of her friends. I have one of my buddies meet me out there, wingman! He brings a buddy too. Anyway, all the girls are dancing and this other, random but sexy girl walks up and starts dancing with them.My buddy notices this dude(about...
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    How much until rep is spread around enough?

    I really wanted to (neg)rep someone but it says I must spread it around first. So I went on a repping spree and rep'd as many people as it would let me before it said I couldn't anymore. I have also rep'd people before this. But this one person I want to rep still tells me I need to spread...
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    How do some people stick around and need advice for so long?

    This site was great for me when I was first having troubles with my EX, it's why I came here. I was offered great advice during, and after my relationship.(I had a bad frame of mind after) But I feel like I've got the entire message / theme to help me lead a more successful life with women...
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    Fun Nothing To Lose POF Message....Worked O.o

    So I sent a message a couple weeks or so ago to this one chick. Who's default picture is her standing infront of a mirror in panties, so not the most prestigious chick around. But anyway, she sent a message back with not much to go off of so I just didn't reply. Today I figured "fvck it."...
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    How to make distinction between flirting / doing job?

    Okay, so I'm sure everyone knows(I hope so at least) that there are certain professions in which the females have learned that being flirty greatly helps their chances increased tips. Bartenders / hair cutters / strippers etc. I was wondering where we can draw the line and make the...
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    Tolerate a liar just because it's easier?(Had a band issue, value your opinion)

    Long story short the othe guitarist in my band lied to me about the singer plagerizing lyrics the other week. I asked him many details on it the night that he did and checked it out myself, he was full of it. I confronted him when he was putting his gear back in his car after practice. I...
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    Depression....How to deal with it?

    I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was younger and I know that is often accompinied with depression, but was never diagnosed with depression. I took some ADHD medication and behaved like a zombie, did improve in school but stopped taking it. I think I've always had depression(it's hard to fully...
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    Trust Your Gut Bros

    My instincts were indeed correct. Yours probably are too.(Consult others opions to avoid it being paranoia. My EX GF and myself's last fight was because it was her best friends B-Day party and(she didn't even invite me keep in mind) it was at a house party with some people. She didn't pick up...
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    Oh God...Reasons to not get blacked out drunk

    So last Saturday my band played out at this campground for labor day weekend. There were some females there so I'm not sure what happend. I got REALLLLY drunk. Was drinking until at least 4 in the morning (starting around 7, starting lightly though) Long story short, I wake up in my tent...
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    Dead Island...

    This game is awesome. Probably not a whole lot of gamers here. But, I"m a huge zombie fan, got this game last night and played the sh1t out of it. I love the open-world environment, feels like Fary Cry 2 , just a lot cooler/ more fun. I personally picked the guy specialized in throwing...
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    Bringing A Guy Friend With? /Sigh

    So my bands playing at this camp ground tonight. I invited this girl I met off Match.com to meet me out there. I can't really blame her because we have only communicated through text , so not a lot of rapport has been established. She just texted me "Hey ____ I'll see you tonight. wanted to...
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    Lying To Protect Husband? Think She Really Got Beat?

    Hey guys. I got a call at about 11 something last night finding out someone who is very close to me had an "accident" while carrying a washing machine up the stairs w/ her husband. I pretty immediately thought the story was bullsh1t. But remain objective and provide counter arguements if...
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    Real BPD Story(Or Some Sort Of Fvcked Up)

    So, I was talking to this girl online. She told me that she was O.D.D.(Conduct Disorder) and had depression, and needed someone that could be forgiving / understanding of it. I was in no way at all planning on sticking around through that. But she is a good lookin' girl so I was going to...
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    Always Next A Girl For Having A Kid?

    I admit that's a pretty huge deal. But I feel there may be some situations were a chick having a kid can be acceptable. Please feel free to disagree though. A week 1/2 ago I signed up on Match.com(Feel free to laugh IDC) Well, this girl messaged me. She's 25(I'm 23), hispanic. Has her...
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    Succubus Tricks

    Now, I"m talking about things women do to trick you into finding them more attractive. Not really just generic things like make-up either. Although some girls casn look WAY different without make-up on. But I'm going to start a list of more uncommon tricks. Sticking with just cosmetics...
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    How to deal with one word response-low IL

    So recently I started using some dating sites. Have been having sh1t luck of course. I can manage to get some responses from girls, even a couple; then they will drop off. When I don't think I did anything stupid, but who knows.(and yes I know it's a crappy method for chicks but I am going to...
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    Wow...I thought I was bad

    I have an old highschool friend who just added me on facebook(I'm 23) This was a few days ago maybe. I saw status updates about being miserable because his ex dumped him or something. Then more updates, and more updates. Then you go his cheer on squad posting inspirational things, of...
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    Getting Frusterated, Thinking Bout Talking To Ex Again

    But anyways I just realized how difficult it is to actually find someone like me that I can connect with.(I know I'm being dramatic now after typing this out and posting some. I haven't given myself enough time / talked to enough chicks yet to formulate that opinion) Just made me revalue my...
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    People Trolling POF In Your Area Too?

    I can provide specific examples but I'm pretty sure I've found a few dudes(presumably) who made fake profiles to troll other dudes on POF in my area. Pretty sure it's the same guy, on at least a couple as he did the same style of making said "chick" look really stupid. I can link specific...
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    Another Co-Worker Advice Thread-Mini Field Report(Don't Need Closing Advice)

    So there is this lower 30's hot milf co-worker of mine,(I'm 23) We work for different teams and on the other side of the office so we rarely see eachother. But, we've talked a few times over the past month or so. We did some light flirting, could tell she was attracted, I'm sure she could see...
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