I have an old highschool friend who just added me on facebook(I'm 23)
This was a few days ago maybe. I saw status updates about being miserable because his ex dumped him or something.
Then more updates, and more updates. Then you go his cheer on squad posting inspirational things, of course. Through these I find out the chick cheated on him.
Then the next day he posts with big smiley faces and says how he's over it etc.....Only to post another misery filled update later that day.
Then yesterday he makes a couple post just saying something about how he hopes she can find it in her heart to take him back and remember all their good times etc..
Another post after that saying how he would marry her and raise a family. And she's his one true love etc.... Was pretty painful to read.
I figured he would be in such denial and what not it wouldnt' be worth it but I sent him a message telling him he needs to get over it.(In the nicest way possible) And he most definitely shouldn't want her back, especially since she cheated but he was going about it the wrong way. That if she knew she could have him back at anytime she wouldn't want him back...You guys know the drill.
Anyway I figured I'd just share what not to do.(They were together for like 1 year too, I'm sure he put up w/ a lot of sh1t behavior along the way)
Would you guys feel compelled to send him a message / slap in the face?
This was a few days ago maybe. I saw status updates about being miserable because his ex dumped him or something.
Then more updates, and more updates. Then you go his cheer on squad posting inspirational things, of course. Through these I find out the chick cheated on him.
Then the next day he posts with big smiley faces and says how he's over it etc.....Only to post another misery filled update later that day.
Then yesterday he makes a couple post just saying something about how he hopes she can find it in her heart to take him back and remember all their good times etc..
Another post after that saying how he would marry her and raise a family. And she's his one true love etc.... Was pretty painful to read.
I figured he would be in such denial and what not it wouldnt' be worth it but I sent him a message telling him he needs to get over it.(In the nicest way possible) And he most definitely shouldn't want her back, especially since she cheated but he was going about it the wrong way. That if she knew she could have him back at anytime she wouldn't want him back...You guys know the drill.
Anyway I figured I'd just share what not to do.(They were together for like 1 year too, I'm sure he put up w/ a lot of sh1t behavior along the way)
Would you guys feel compelled to send him a message / slap in the face?
