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...and the women is still with them? Are they pvssy whipped? They cant afford to walk from a bad relationship if they worked too hard to find one in the first place.
One is kinda PW’d. But he’s got a $$$ job. The other is White & married his Asian looksmatch. They’re both nerdy. A couple of others are White with matched LT Asian GFs.
 

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makes me feel good about myself sometimes lol
I have a fair few friends who are basically incel (like friends who I drink with who I don't think have got laid in 10 years)
I also have huge slayer friends too (the good looking dudes who bang all the time)

I think the only difference between me and my incel friends is that they aren't prepared to face a ludicrous number of rejections that i've accepted (I tend to go for girls a fair bit hotter and younger than me and so know that I will likely get rejected 95% of the time. I don't think my friends can accept them odds and so just go without lol)
The dating market today is very different than even just a decade ago, before all these dating apps came into existence. I'm a white man who is in his early 30s, 6'4" at 240 and in amazing shape physically, very athletically built, etc. and all I get are matches or messages/responses from women that weighed close to if not more than me. I can only imagine what it's like for your more averageish man, 4-6, let alone a below average one if I have a hard time.

However, like you said a big factor is effort put in. Unless you are constantly approaching or in an environment where meeting a large variety of women is possible you are going to be single and sexless for a long time.
 

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One is kinda PW’d. But he’s got a $$$ job. The other is White & married his Asian looksmatch. They’re both nerdy. A couple of others are White with matched LT Asian GFs.
....and your incel friends are all white too?
 

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The distribution of sex is only going to a smaller % of men. There are plenty of ordinary, non-loser men who aren't getting sex.
ordinary = loser ??? its binary, winner or looser; 10% vs 90%.
 

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I think so. However, for obvious reasons, they get uncomfortable when I start talking about girls.
LOL. I just remembered two more incel-tier White friends who went to Japan & git Asian wives. I think I’m the only White guy in my friend group to date non-Asians (I’ll date Asians, but I prefer other races).
 

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all these men will be super cleanup men for washed up women or young sugar daddies in their 30s with all of this saved up money/lack of experience with women. Women will get worse and still be bailed out by men!
So who's going to bail this out? :eek: :eek: :eek:

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We are about to enter a pay to play society.
 

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I think you are on to something. Most of my friends are physically unattractive (one of my GFs complained ‘All your friends are ugly’). However what separated the incels from those that eventually got a woman, was trying.
So you are saying that all an incel-tier man has to do is "try"? :rolleyes:
 

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I think the only difference between me and my incel friends is that they aren't prepared to face a ludicrous number of rejections that i've accepted (I tend to go for girls a fair bit hotter and younger than me and so know that I will likely get rejected 95% of the time. I don't think my friends can accept them odds and so just go without lol)
I've had some 0 for double-digit evenings. It's BRUTAL! :down:
 

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So you are saying that all an incel-tier man has to do is "try"? :rolleyes:
No. But not trying is guarantee of eternal singleness. Women don’t approach average or below guys. So trying is their only option. It will be a tough road to hoe, but what other option is there?
 

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No. But not trying is guarantee of eternal singleness. Women don’t approach average or below guys. So trying is their only option. It will be a tough road to hoe, but what other option is there?
Women usually dont approach guys period but they can give off a bunch of IOIs or make it inviting for you to want to approach.

Did your white friends go asian as a last resort because white girls rejected them or were they specifically looking for an asian gf in the first place? If your white friends had to try hard to get a compatible asian gf then that really sounds brutal.
 
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