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Women usually dont approach guys period but they can give off a bunch of IOIs or make it inviting for you to want to approach.
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Did your white friends go asian as a last resort because white girls rejected them or were they specifically looking for an asian gf in the first place? If your white friends had to try hard to get a compatible asian gf then that really sounds brutal.
A lot of the white guys that go Asian do so because they are failures with white women. White women are entitled and demanding so it's understandable but realize that a lot of white men simply don't cut it for white women anymore when she has hordes of men sliding into her DMs on social media at a minimum. Almost every white woman I talk to who is in a relationship and not looking for a new man mentions she regularly is getting hit up for sex on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn. These are women who aren't even on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. So imagine how many men a woman can queue from Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, Clubhouse, TikTok, Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge combined.

white incels mentality is the same as an entitled single mom. incel cant get sex, single mom can't get commitment from who she really desires.
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I think alot of guys have found out sex is overrated and not worth the trouble these days. I can go longer periods without sex now than I used to be able to. You guys can put in all that effort, I prefer to focus on other things more worth my time at the moment.
I don't feel that way at all about sex.
 

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A lot of the white guys that go Asian do so because they are failures with white women. White women are entitled and demanding so it's understandable but realize that a lot of white men simply don't cut it for white women anymore when she has hordes of men sliding into her DMs on social media at a minimum. Almost every white woman I talk to who is in a relationship and not looking for a new man mentions she regularly is getting hit up for sex on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn. These are women who aren't even on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. So imagine how many men a woman can queue from Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, Clubhouse, TikTok, Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge combined.
What type of guys does these white women have a relationship with? Who was the guy that "cut it"?

The OP wasn't clear on why his other white incel friends did not have an Asian gf seeing that they shared the same social circle as the other white friends who got Asian girls, and what he means by one group of friends trying and the other not trying. Does he mean trying by going out to a social circle vs staying at home and playing video games, or something more intentional?
 

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What type of guys does these white women have a relationship with? Who was the guy that "cut it"?
Most white women in their 20s/30s now believe that they are entitled to a man over 6 feet tall, with 6 packs abs, and earning $100,000+ per year.

Because their swipe queues are often so large, they can find that man, and are often pumped and dumped by him.
 

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Most white women in their 20s/30s now believe that they are entitled to a man over 6 feet tall, with 6 packs abs, and earning $100,000+ per year.

Because their swipe queues are often so large, they can find that man, and are often pumped and dumped by him.
Okay, but in the previous posts, you said that "every white woman I talk to who is in a relationship"...but relationship with who? You didn't say pump and dump there.
 

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Okay, but in the previous posts, you said that "every white woman I talk to who is in a relationship"...but relationship with who? You didn't say pump and dump there.
Good point. These white women I referenced are not always with top tier guys but one landed a guy with big muscles despite being overweight and a single mom. The thirst is real!
 

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Good point. These white women I referenced are not always with top tier guys but one landed a guy with big muscles despite being overweight and a single mom. The thirst is real!
it’s true, white women(mediocre and hot) have secret relationships with Chad’s and appear single. The blonde I’m with, there’s no way you would know that she was getting serviced by me lol.

I also see it with my female friends. They can get any good looking guy that’s horny on a slow Tuesday to come have a secret relationship with them.
 

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Good point. These white women I referenced are not always with top tier guys but one landed a guy with big muscles despite being overweight and a single mom. The thirst is real!
This was my point about sex being overrated. Not sex itself but all the bull**** an average guy has to go through to get it, knowing all along she willingly gave it up to top tier guys. You think I’m about to waste more than 2 seconds on a mid-30’s woman that has cut off the sex spigot to “take it slow” with me even though she still got bent over the trash cans in an alley last weekend? No sir, I’ll pass. Again, my example is I am not paying sticker price for a used car with 100,000 miles when my credit is 800.

And to be honest, most 30’s women and 40’s women I’ve hooked up with were just flat out bad at sex. They don’t want to experiment or anything like the 20’s women. Sorry but I can beat my own meat when I’m in between girls in their 20’s vs an old worn out bitter hung up on past Chad’s hag that will make you fall asleep while she’s riding your **** because she’s so awful at it.
 

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This was my point about sex being overrated. Not sex itself but all the bull**** an average guy has to go through to get it, knowing all along she willingly gave it up to top tier guys. You think I’m about to waste more than 2 seconds on a mid-30’s woman that has cut off the sex spigot to “take it slow” with me even though she still got bent over the trash cans in an alley last weekend? No sir, I’ll pass. Again, my example is I am not paying sticker price for a used car with 100,000 miles when my credit is 800.
I have experienced a lot of bullshiit in my quest to get laid regularly over the course of the last 20+ years. Cutting off the sex spigot to take it slow is horseshiit. Don't pay sticker price for a used car with 100,000 with an 800 credit score but don't walk 8 miles a day in 95 degree heat. Going without sex is like walking multiple miles a day to do errands in the heat.

And to be honest, most 30’s women and 40’s women I’ve hooked up with were just flat out bad at sex. They don’t want to experiment or anything like the 20’s women. Sorry but I can beat my own meat when I’m in between girls in their 20’s vs an old worn out bitter hung up on past Chad’s hag that will make you fall asleep while she’s riding your **** because she’s so awful at it.
I am in my 30s and having been mainly having sex with 30 something women in recent years. I have had solid experiences with sex with 30 something women. I am fortunate. I have also been put through a lot of shiit to get that sex.
 

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Don't pay sticker price for a used car with 100,000 with an 800 credit score but don't walk 8 miles a day in 95 degree heat.
What is the best if you had just both those options?

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Going without sex is like walking multiple miles a day to do errands in the heat.
That's still option two.

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I am in my 30s and having been mainly having sex with 30 something women in recent years. I have had solid experiences with sex with 30 something women. I am fortunate. I have also been put through a lot of shiit to get that sex.
Then you paid the sticker price and went with option A?
 

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Going without sex is like walking multiple miles a day to do errands in the heat.
Maybe for you. For me sex feels like an errand or task, I stress out when I have to do it
and usually can't wait for it to be over. I'm much more comfortable being sexless day to
day than having the expectation that I'm supposed to put out sexually from time to time.
 

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I think alot of guys have found out sex is overrated and not worth the trouble these days. I can go longer periods without sex now than I used to be able to. You guys can put in all that effort, I prefer to focus on other things more worth my time at the moment.
I really think this is not touched on nearly enough. Sex is so difficult and often expensive for your average man to get. How much better is the experience as opposed to masturbating to porn, which is free and readily accessible?
 
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