Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Would you buy a Lambo to attract women if you could?

jnMissouri

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It doesn't have to be a Lambo, it could be a Porsche, Bentley, etc. If you haven't seen the videos online of women who wont give a guy the time of day, then he walks back to his Lambo and all of a sudden she doesn't have a boyfriend, etc. would you?

I ask because I have that kind of money, but don't do that, at least not yet. I admit it would be sooo much easier. But I want to get systems down. Teasing women, being willing to walk away, advancing physically has drastically improved my success with women over the years. I'm still always trying to improve my game, look for patterns, what works, etc.

But the thought of just buying a Rolex, a Lambo (I already own a few nice houses) and using it to get women to outright turn the tables on them sometimes crosses my mind. It's a poor financial decision due to opportunity cost of investing that money, but it's a choice none the less.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It doesn't have to be a Lambo, it could be a Porsche, Bentley, etc. If you haven't seen the videos online of women who wont give a guy the time of day, then he walks back to his Lambo and all of a sudden she doesn't have a boyfriend, etc. would you?

I ask because I have that kind of money, but don't do that, at least not yet. I admit it would be sooo much easier. But I want to get systems down. Teasing women, being willing to walk away, advancing physically has drastically improved my success with women over the years. I'm still always trying to improve my game, look for patterns, what works, etc.

But the thought of just buying a Rolex, a Lambo (I already own a few nice houses) and using it to get women to outright turn the tables on them sometimes crosses my mind. It's a poor financial decision due to opportunity cost of investing that money, but it's a choice none the less.
If you have that much money, get the women in your circle because either way you will be in the environment where they will know you have money and all.. why you have to buy a lambo to get a girl lol.. also the videos are fake most of the times
 

jnMissouri

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If you have that much money, get the women in your circle because either way you will be in the environment where they will know you have money and all.. why you have to buy a lambo to get a girl lol.. also the videos are fake most of the times
Interesting point. I've dated women who knew how much I made because they worked in HR and had access to my pay info and dealt with it regularly....
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nope.

You can lose money. You can't lose personality.

And if you were to buy a lambo.. buy it for you, not some chick.
 

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If you have that much money, get the women in your circle because either way you will be in the environment where they will know you have money and all.. why you have to buy a lambo to get a girl lol.. also the videos are fake most of the times
THIS!
 

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It doesn't have to be a Lambo, it could be a Porsche, Bentley, etc. If you haven't seen the videos online of women who wont give a guy the time of day, then he walks back to his Lambo and all of a sudden she doesn't have a boyfriend, etc. would you?

I ask because I have that kind of money, but don't do that, at least not yet. I admit it would be sooo much easier. But I want to get systems down. Teasing women, being willing to walk away, advancing physically has drastically improved my success with women over the years. I'm still always trying to improve my game, look for patterns, what works, etc.

But the thought of just buying a Rolex, a Lambo (I already own a few nice houses) and using it to get women to outright turn the tables on them sometimes crosses my mind. It's a poor financial decision due to opportunity cost of investing that money, but it's a choice none the less.
I would probably attract more dudes lol as for women and hypergamy, they would dee the targrt painted on my back as provider cuck. I would drive a luxury car instead but, i come with a invisible sign, will not commit. As a bachelor, no kids, no debt outside of a mortgage, i fully intend to get a luxury vehicle by forty. Outside of my modest expenses, I spenf more on a gym membership, food, etc and I've been practicing minimalism for years.

I seriously could get by on a super basic entry level job. I have no idea how people go full retatd broke at like 60. Even crazy enough, i allocate any bonus or pay raise to my 401k. The plan is early retirement but I have a lifestyle I want to maintain and its super basic. I do enjoy travel and fine dining but, i limit it.


Op, read a bachelor pad economics by Aaron Clarey. Low end of middle income and you're laughing. My ambitions super seed the following Just Cause. I could easily do confo living before forty and setup a rebtal property (keeping in mind capital gains). You don't need much. Save more. Spend less.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Never understood why anyone buys anything to impress people who don't matter to them; nor care about them. If you have the money and want a nice car, buy it for you, not to say hey look how rich and impressive I am. It's one of the problems of the west. People needing to impress others with material things for status, ego, sex, etc. The world is just materialistically fvcked up.
 

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It's actually called getting your sh1t together. You need to get your sh1t together to attract women. Your own apartment, could be rental doesn't matter, but your own, no roommates. A car does a lot of things for you, a nice car does a lot more things for you. Woman would see all that and want to be with you, think of you a nice provider, nest with you, stay in your bed and don't want to leave your place, so that you don't go out there and find another woman.

Lambo costs a lot of money man, it's a major life purchase. Think something good looking and attractive for a lot less money. I enjoy mustangs, I would get myself a nice 03-04 mustang if I could.

As far as having a fvcking nice car, yes it works. It works like this, you open up a door next to a chick you see on the street, and tell her to get in. Chances are she will get in. Tried and tested.
 

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No, because you can't attract women by sitting in bumper to bumper traffic.
Life isn't a Hollywood movie.
You have to be where women are mingling and enjoying themselves in large numbers.
Just driving around from street to street like a teenager desperately looking for women to talk to is not only a gamble, but downright pathetic.
 

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He'd probably have better luck dressing nicely in black pants, fitted black shirt with a black sports jacket and a gold Rolex on. My boss's boss has a gold Rolex and everyone eyes just follow it as he moves his arms, men and women. I don't get. It's a watch. Who cares. I get it, it's a status symbol, but I'd never buy a Rolex. Too tacky for me.

Looks like this
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lamborghini won’t do much to attract hot women you can bang, neither will the watch. Trust me.

These are toys for you if you like these kind of things.
 

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Fvck no. Put money into assets that appreciate not depreciate.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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