FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Too young? What's better than a girl 18-22?
Too far away? She can drive
4-5? Yes I'd pass...but some guys can work with that
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Worth messing with a 19 year old plate?
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Too far away? She can drive
4-5? Yes I'd pass...but some guys can work with that
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
37 and 19? Wtf...That gap is creepy af
Doctor Europeo
Moderator
Most older women would agree with you. Also she´s into him, isnt she? Does that mean she is a creepy girl?
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
She's literally 19. It doesn't matter that she's into him...she's a stupid kid, he's a whole grown man lol. No one at 19 makes sensible choices...I'm 30 and I feel like any women under 25 would be weird. 19? I can't even....Welp whatever. It's not my deck.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Sounds like women have brainwashed you into their social scheme they've created to eliminate competition from younger women. Congrats.
Also, are you implying you've never watched 18-20 year girls in porn? That's pretty much the norm.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
Um no, you're overthinking it. It's weird. If you guys want skinny, hairless va g women who act dumb af all the time bc you're young af, be my guest. It's not attractive once you hit 30 unless you're just really insecure about your age and trying to relive your youth vicariously lol.
...I didn't say I never did, but I'm not attracted to skinny af women with boy bodies so I don't seek 19 year olds in porn. I want women to look like women....weird I know.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
I've seen quite a few younger women with curves, I see it all the time at my gym, though I do admit many younger women are just basic ***** skinny which I do not like very much.
I'm not insecure about my age at all in fact I think I'm getting closer and closer to my prime as I age, yet I still find their youthfulness attractive and older women tend to be jaded, cynical, and delusional.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
Hey man, it your decks...you guys can do whatever you want.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Those pictures suck, most of the 9s look like 7s, 8s look like 6s, 7s like 5s. Looks like it was from early 2000s too.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Gamisch
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You clearly never been with a 19 y.o woman. If anything they might look and even act more feminine than the
older women you referring to.
That age is the pinnacle of looks for most women. Just facts. You try to argue with mother nature herself.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I smashed a 18 year old 5/10 that lived an hour away. I made her uber to my place and bring vodka, banged her multiple times, head, anal, recorded on my phone, kicked her out 4 hours later, and she gave me Chlamydia.
I still have her number and her display pic on Whatsapp looks o be married with some guy, poor guy.
I really don't see why age, location or anything else matters if your output/effort/expense to secure the bang is 0. Make her come to you.
I still have her number and her display pic on Whatsapp looks o be married with some guy, poor guy.
I really don't see why age, location or anything else matters if your output/effort/expense to secure the bang is 0. Make her come to you.
I am dealing with 19yr old myself. My advice don't get attached she is exploring so keep that in mind and don't get used. She probably didn't have daddy around and needs a daddy's archetype in her life. Just have but be careful she is young and can cause troubles
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I had the same (only 45 min drive though). We wound up BF/GF. Was great.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.