FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Too young? What's better than a girl 18-22?
Too far away? She can drive
4-5? Yes I'd pass...but some guys can work with that
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Worth messing with a 19 year old plate?
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Too far away? She can drive
4-5? Yes I'd pass...but some guys can work with that
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
37 and 19? Wtf...That gap is creepy af
Doctor Europeo
Moderator
Most older women would agree with you. Also she´s into him, isnt she? Does that mean she is a creepy girl?
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
She's literally 19. It doesn't matter that she's into him...she's a stupid kid, he's a whole grown man lol. No one at 19 makes sensible choices...I'm 30 and I feel like any women under 25 would be weird. 19? I can't even....Welp whatever. It's not my deck.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Sounds like women have brainwashed you into their social scheme they've created to eliminate competition from younger women. Congrats.
Also, are you implying you've never watched 18-20 year girls in porn? That's pretty much the norm.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
Um no, you're overthinking it. It's weird. If you guys want skinny, hairless va g women who act dumb af all the time bc you're young af, be my guest. It's not attractive once you hit 30 unless you're just really insecure about your age and trying to relive your youth vicariously lol.
...I didn't say I never did, but I'm not attracted to skinny af women with boy bodies so I don't seek 19 year olds in porn. I want women to look like women....weird I know.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
I've seen quite a few younger women with curves, I see it all the time at my gym, though I do admit many younger women are just basic ***** skinny which I do not like very much.
I'm not insecure about my age at all in fact I think I'm getting closer and closer to my prime as I age, yet I still find their youthfulness attractive and older women tend to be jaded, cynical, and delusional.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
Hey man, it your decks...you guys can do whatever you want.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Those pictures suck, most of the 9s look like 7s, 8s look like 6s, 7s like 5s. Looks like it was from early 2000s too.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gamisch
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You clearly never been with a 19 y.o woman. If anything they might look and even act more feminine than the
older women you referring to.
That age is the pinnacle of looks for most women. Just facts. You try to argue with mother nature herself.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I smashed a 18 year old 5/10 that lived an hour away. I made her uber to my place and bring vodka, banged her multiple times, head, anal, recorded on my phone, kicked her out 4 hours later, and she gave me Chlamydia.
I still have her number and her display pic on Whatsapp looks o be married with some guy, poor guy.
I really don't see why age, location or anything else matters if your output/effort/expense to secure the bang is 0. Make her come to you.
I still have her number and her display pic on Whatsapp looks o be married with some guy, poor guy.
I really don't see why age, location or anything else matters if your output/effort/expense to secure the bang is 0. Make her come to you.
I am dealing with 19yr old myself. My advice don't get attached she is exploring so keep that in mind and don't get used. She probably didn't have daddy around and needs a daddy's archetype in her life. Just have but be careful she is young and can cause troubles
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I had the same (only 45 min drive though). We wound up BF/GF. Was great.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.