"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a 19 year old plate potential that lives a few hours away but wants something casual with an older guy. I'm generally down for that, but she seems to be quite a liberal (a bit too lefty), but I think for some younger fun should be fine, wouldn't you say? She's a 4-5
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I get a boner by just imagining the word TEEN!

How can she be below average by being 19yo? Is she fat or ugly?


19yo girls are easy to train. I would go for it. Teach her how to do some freaky stuff that she'll never go back to a young guy again. Hopefully she'll tell her friends and so forth.
 

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I get a boner by just imagining the word TEEN!

How can she be below average by being 19yo? Is she fat or ugly?


19yo girls are easy to train. I would go for it. Teach her how to do some freaky stuff that she'll never go back to a young guy again. Hopefully she'll tell her friends and so forth.
She’s not fat but just a bit chubby, face is OK, average, I guess. Alright
 

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She's a 4 or a 5?.... Or 4 out of 5? Big difference
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a 19 year old plate potential that lives a few hours away but wants something casual with an older guy. I'm generally down for that, but she seems to be quite a liberal (a bit too lefty), but I think for some younger fun should be fine, wouldn't you say? She's a 4-5
A) if she is a plate why the hell do you care about politics? In general never bring politics up and if they do change the subject. Nothing good ever comes from any discourse on it. You are trying to fvck them not go to a rally with them.

B) A few hours away for a 4 or 5? C'mon man...what are we doing here?
 
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One reason why the number scale is so shoddy is that it isn’t clear if it adjusts for age or not. A perfectly average 19 year old (ie a 5) is a pretty fine thing — far above the general population average
 

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Oh I wouldn't travel there, she'd travel here lol
If she is coming to you why not? Personally, I don't see the point of driving past 30 minutes unless the chickis hot luckily 90% of women I meet come to my place since I have decent logistics being near the city
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go for it if she's the one coming over. Also be careful not to get attached to this lefty, i.e., make sure you have other plates.
 

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OP, if she's coming over make sure you guys meet and fvck at a motel, not your house/apartment, for obvious reasons.

But, I agree with other members that unless you're too desperate, this doesn't sound like a good deal. I would hit the gym to release the tension instead.
 

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I’m not actively pursuing that one, I have 2-3 other plates going that are a bit older (late 20’s, early 30’s) and close to me too, good input fellas
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Too young. Too far away. 4-5. /10 ??? Pass
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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