FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Too young? What's better than a girl 18-22?
Too far away? She can drive
4-5? Yes I'd pass...but some guys can work with that
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Worth messing with a 19 year old plate?
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Too far away? She can drive
4-5? Yes I'd pass...but some guys can work with that
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
37 and 19? Wtf...That gap is creepy af
Doctor Europeo
Moderator
Most older women would agree with you. Also she´s into him, isnt she? Does that mean she is a creepy girl?
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
She's literally 19. It doesn't matter that she's into him...she's a stupid kid, he's a whole grown man lol. No one at 19 makes sensible choices...I'm 30 and I feel like any women under 25 would be weird. 19? I can't even....Welp whatever. It's not my deck.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Sounds like women have brainwashed you into their social scheme they've created to eliminate competition from younger women. Congrats.
Also, are you implying you've never watched 18-20 year girls in porn? That's pretty much the norm.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
Um no, you're overthinking it. It's weird. If you guys want skinny, hairless va g women who act dumb af all the time bc you're young af, be my guest. It's not attractive once you hit 30 unless you're just really insecure about your age and trying to relive your youth vicariously lol.
...I didn't say I never did, but I'm not attracted to skinny af women with boy bodies so I don't seek 19 year olds in porn. I want women to look like women....weird I know.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
I've seen quite a few younger women with curves, I see it all the time at my gym, though I do admit many younger women are just basic ***** skinny which I do not like very much.
I'm not insecure about my age at all in fact I think I'm getting closer and closer to my prime as I age, yet I still find their youthfulness attractive and older women tend to be jaded, cynical, and delusional.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
Hey man, it your decks...you guys can do whatever you want.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Those pictures suck, most of the 9s look like 7s, 8s look like 6s, 7s like 5s. Looks like it was from early 2000s too.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gamisch
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You clearly never been with a 19 y.o woman. If anything they might look and even act more feminine than the
older women you referring to.
That age is the pinnacle of looks for most women. Just facts. You try to argue with mother nature herself.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I smashed a 18 year old 5/10 that lived an hour away. I made her uber to my place and bring vodka, banged her multiple times, head, anal, recorded on my phone, kicked her out 4 hours later, and she gave me Chlamydia.
I still have her number and her display pic on Whatsapp looks o be married with some guy, poor guy.
I really don't see why age, location or anything else matters if your output/effort/expense to secure the bang is 0. Make her come to you.
I still have her number and her display pic on Whatsapp looks o be married with some guy, poor guy.
I really don't see why age, location or anything else matters if your output/effort/expense to secure the bang is 0. Make her come to you.
I am dealing with 19yr old myself. My advice don't get attached she is exploring so keep that in mind and don't get used. She probably didn't have daddy around and needs a daddy's archetype in her life. Just have but be careful she is young and can cause troubles
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I had the same (only 45 min drive though). We wound up BF/GF. Was great.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.