FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Too young? What's better than a girl 18-22?
Too far away? She can drive
4-5? Yes I'd pass...but some guys can work with that
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Worth messing with a 19 year old plate?
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Too far away? She can drive
4-5? Yes I'd pass...but some guys can work with that
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
37 and 19? Wtf...That gap is creepy af
Doctor Europeo
Moderator
Most older women would agree with you. Also she´s into him, isnt she? Does that mean she is a creepy girl?
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
She's literally 19. It doesn't matter that she's into him...she's a stupid kid, he's a whole grown man lol. No one at 19 makes sensible choices...I'm 30 and I feel like any women under 25 would be weird. 19? I can't even....Welp whatever. It's not my deck.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Sounds like women have brainwashed you into their social scheme they've created to eliminate competition from younger women. Congrats.
Also, are you implying you've never watched 18-20 year girls in porn? That's pretty much the norm.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
Um no, you're overthinking it. It's weird. If you guys want skinny, hairless va g women who act dumb af all the time bc you're young af, be my guest. It's not attractive once you hit 30 unless you're just really insecure about your age and trying to relive your youth vicariously lol.
...I didn't say I never did, but I'm not attracted to skinny af women with boy bodies so I don't seek 19 year olds in porn. I want women to look like women....weird I know.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
I've seen quite a few younger women with curves, I see it all the time at my gym, though I do admit many younger women are just basic ***** skinny which I do not like very much.
I'm not insecure about my age at all in fact I think I'm getting closer and closer to my prime as I age, yet I still find their youthfulness attractive and older women tend to be jaded, cynical, and delusional.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
Hey man, it your decks...you guys can do whatever you want.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Those pictures suck, most of the 9s look like 7s, 8s look like 6s, 7s like 5s. Looks like it was from early 2000s too.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Gamisch
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You clearly never been with a 19 y.o woman. If anything they might look and even act more feminine than the
older women you referring to.
That age is the pinnacle of looks for most women. Just facts. You try to argue with mother nature herself.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I smashed a 18 year old 5/10 that lived an hour away. I made her uber to my place and bring vodka, banged her multiple times, head, anal, recorded on my phone, kicked her out 4 hours later, and she gave me Chlamydia.
I still have her number and her display pic on Whatsapp looks o be married with some guy, poor guy.
I really don't see why age, location or anything else matters if your output/effort/expense to secure the bang is 0. Make her come to you.
I still have her number and her display pic on Whatsapp looks o be married with some guy, poor guy.
I really don't see why age, location or anything else matters if your output/effort/expense to secure the bang is 0. Make her come to you.
I am dealing with 19yr old myself. My advice don't get attached she is exploring so keep that in mind and don't get used. She probably didn't have daddy around and needs a daddy's archetype in her life. Just have but be careful she is young and can cause troubles
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I had the same (only 45 min drive though). We wound up BF/GF. Was great.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.