FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Too young? What's better than a girl 18-22?Too young. Too far away. 4-5. /10 ??? Pass
Too far away? She can drive
4-5? Yes I'd pass...but some guys can work with that
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Too young? What's better than a girl 18-22?Too young. Too far away. 4-5. /10 ??? Pass
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most older women would agree with you. Also she´s into him, isnt she? Does that mean she is a creepy girl?37 and 19? Wtf...That gap is creepy af
She's literally 19. It doesn't matter that she's into him...she's a stupid kid, he's a whole grown man lol. No one at 19 makes sensible choices...I'm 30 and I feel like any women under 25 would be weird. 19? I can't even....Welp whatever. It's not my deck.Most older women would agree with you. Also she´s into him, isnt she? Does that mean she is a creepy girl?
Sounds like women have brainwashed you into their social scheme they've created to eliminate competition from younger women. Congrats.She's literally 19. It doesn't matter that she's into him...she's a stupid kid, he's a whole grown man lol. No one at 19 makes sensible choices...I'm 30 and I feel like any women under 25 would be weird. 19? I can't even....Welp whatever. It's not my deck.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Um no, you're overthinking it. It's weird. If you guys want skinny, hairless va g women who act dumb af all the time bc you're young af, be my guest. It's not attractive once you hit 30 unless you're just really insecure about your age and trying to relive your youth vicariously lol.Sounds like women have brainwashed you into their social scheme they've created to eliminate competition from younger women. Congrats.
Also, are you implying you've never watched 18-20 year girls in porn? That's pretty much the norm.
I've seen quite a few younger women with curves, I see it all the time at my gym, though I do admit many younger women are just basic ***** skinny which I do not like very much.Um no, you're overthinking it. It's weird. If you guys want skinny, hairless va g women who act dumb af all the time bc you're young af, be my guest. It's not attractive once you hit 30 unless you're just really insecure about your age and trying to relive your youth vicariously lol.
...I didn't say I never did, but I'm not attracted to skinny af women with boy bodies so I don't seek 19 year olds in porn. I want women to look like women....weird I know.
Hey man, it your decks...you guys can do whatever you want.I've seen quite a few younger women with curves, I see it all the time at my gym, though I do admit many younger women are just basic ***** skinny which I do not like very much.
I'm not insecure about my age at all in fact I think I'm getting closer and closer to my prime as I age, yet I still find their youthfulness attractive and older women tend to be jaded, cynical, and delusional.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You clearly never been with a 19 y.o woman. If anything they might look and even act more feminine than theUm no, you're overthinking it. It's weird. If you guys want skinny, hairless va g women who act dumb af all the time bc you're young af, be my guest. It's not attractive once you hit 30 unless you're just really insecure about your age and trying to relive your youth vicariously lol.
...I didn't say I never did, but I'm not attracted to skinny af women with boy bodies so I don't seek 19 year olds in porn. I want women to look like women....weird I know.
I had the same (only 45 min drive though). We wound up BF/GF. Was great.I have a 19 year old plate potential that lives a few hours away but wants something casual with an older guy. I'm generally down for that, but she seems to be quite a liberal (a bit too lefty), but I think for some younger fun should be fine, wouldn't you say? She's a 4-5
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.