Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Worth messing with a 19 year old plate?

user252009

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I have a 19 year old plate potential that lives a few hours away but wants something casual with an older guy. I'm generally down for that, but she seems to be quite a liberal (a bit too lefty), but I think for some younger fun should be fine, wouldn't you say? She's a 4-5
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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corsica

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I get a boner by just imagining the word TEEN!

How can she be below average by being 19yo? Is she fat or ugly?


19yo girls are easy to train. I would go for it. Teach her how to do some freaky stuff that she'll never go back to a young guy again. Hopefully she'll tell her friends and so forth.
 

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I get a boner by just imagining the word TEEN!

How can she be below average by being 19yo? Is she fat or ugly?


19yo girls are easy to train. I would go for it. Teach her how to do some freaky stuff that she'll never go back to a young guy again. Hopefully she'll tell her friends and so forth.
She’s not fat but just a bit chubby, face is OK, average, I guess. Alright
 

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She's a 4 or a 5?.... Or 4 out of 5? Big difference
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a 19 year old plate potential that lives a few hours away but wants something casual with an older guy. I'm generally down for that, but she seems to be quite a liberal (a bit too lefty), but I think for some younger fun should be fine, wouldn't you say? She's a 4-5
A) if she is a plate why the hell do you care about politics? In general never bring politics up and if they do change the subject. Nothing good ever comes from any discourse on it. You are trying to fvck them not go to a rally with them.

B) A few hours away for a 4 or 5? C'mon man...what are we doing here?
 
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One reason why the number scale is so shoddy is that it isn’t clear if it adjusts for age or not. A perfectly average 19 year old (ie a 5) is a pretty fine thing — far above the general population average
 

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Oh I wouldn't travel there, she'd travel here lol
If she is coming to you why not? Personally, I don't see the point of driving past 30 minutes unless the chickis hot luckily 90% of women I meet come to my place since I have decent logistics being near the city
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Go for it if she's the one coming over. Also be careful not to get attached to this lefty, i.e., make sure you have other plates.
 

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OP, if she's coming over make sure you guys meet and fvck at a motel, not your house/apartment, for obvious reasons.

But, I agree with other members that unless you're too desperate, this doesn't sound like a good deal. I would hit the gym to release the tension instead.
 

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I’m not actively pursuing that one, I have 2-3 other plates going that are a bit older (late 20’s, early 30’s) and close to me too, good input fellas
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Too young. Too far away. 4-5. /10 ??? Pass
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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