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I tried dating an exboyfriend again years later. When I dated him, I was fecund.
The second time around I'm this lady who is infertile and trying to philosophically explain to him how I see men and women and nature and the world differently.......just went over his head, he didn't want to philosophise with me....awwww.
I think you might get it though Jack12345
I had no idea that you are a woman
I read today something you wrote about boyfriend I thought wtf the dude is talking about
Now the thing with not having sex for years makes sense to me because man would not say something like this in such a joyful way
 

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I had no idea that you are a woman
I read today something you wrote about boyfriend I thought wtf the dude is talking about
Now the thing with not having sex for years makes sense to me because man would not say something like this in such a joyful way
no kidding hey?
 
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you know,tesla is more or less outside the line correct? everything in life we do is for sex, more power/money/going to the gym is all for sex, sex bring higher self esteem, with makes you ego feels better with in sum will make you feel better, even when you understand this and control your ego, you will still feel his effects, naming people who you belive is not the rule only means most are like this, with makes the rule
You could say the same for each guy out here, this was exactly my point, I just tried to explain it to someone I misunderstood as a male

To my knowledge Tesla ended bad, musk also not feels like he's going to be sane for too long. Same about nietzsche. Big minds miserable lifes
 

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Sex is an additional boost of testosterone over the other ways. It tells his mind and psyche that he's a desired man. Sex also reduces stress and anxiety making him look calmer and cooler under disruption. Sex greases, shines and builds his sexual aura. Which is visible and some call it "swag". Without it he looks like a healthy, maybe more stressed but fit guy who must not be getting any.

I remember working with many men starved by their wives. Even as a man i could tell they didn't have sex.

They were more stressed. And more easily disturbed people. Greater levels of visible anxiety. They just don't look sexual or virile. Although they might be able to kick somrones azz. We all knew they were sexless and frustrated.

A sexless man is going to be less charming. Dryer. Probably more of an azz. Very hard to be truly happy that way.
Many would claim the exact opposite MrGoodStuff. I went about 3 months no fap no ejaculation and felt great. I was involuntarily celebate for a few months after my gf and side chick left town. I had no puzzy. Broke the dry spell and realized how stupid i was being. I now have voluntarily have not had sex for 7 months and I feel fine.

I turned down sex from a 23 yr old a few months back ( to be fair she had a bf and i try to stay clean).

I had to go celibate. I was cheating alot. It was ruining my life. When i was getting sex i could not stop thinking about getting more sex with hotter chicks. It is a drug.

You are correct though but i think a man must channel his sexual energy into other things if he is going to be celibate.

I also am sure that you have gotten enough sex in your life. Just having had one girl friend provides enough sexual experience for a lifetime. We smash them hundreds of times. Im sure most men in their 30s and 40s could never have sex again in their lives and they could live. Its not worth degrading ourselves over.

If things work out with the girl i am talking to now I might dive into puzzy again. But for now i feel like a junkie getting clean.
 

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Many would claim the exact opposite MrGoodStuff. I went about 3 months no fap no ejaculation and felt great. I was involuntarily celebate for a few months after my gf and side chick left town. I had no puzzy. Broke the dry spell and realized how stupid i was being. I now have voluntarily have not had sex for 7 months and I feel fine.

I turned down sex from a 23 yr old a few months back ( to be fair she had a bf and i try to stay clean).

I had to go celibate. I was cheating alot. It was ruining my life. When i was getting sex i could not stop thinking about getting more sex with hotter chicks. It is a drug.

You are correct though but i think a man must channel his sexual energy into other things if he is going to be celibate.

I also am sure that you have gotten enough sex in your life. Just having had one girl friend provides enough sexual experience for a lifetime. We smash them hundreds of times. Im sure most men in their 30s and 40s could never have sex again in their lives and they could live. Its not worth degrading ourselves over.

If things work out with the girl i am talking to now I might dive into puzzy again. But for now i feel like a junkie getting clean.
Well if you are disrespecting your self to get the puzzy thats one thing. But the way im wired im just better and more attractive with sex.

And i can peep other men who i can tell aren't getting any it's completely visible.

On this website years ago even it wss established that women can tell. And they can.

You and i may have to disagree here. But sexual activity is part of the human and emotional experience.

In my view people who don't get it are more stressed, quicker to anger, more of an azzhole or more of a bytch.

Your assertion is similar to saying you received enough positive emotions for a lifetime.

Or you recieved enough love for a lifetime.

You've had enough joy for a lifetime.

Now lets make you miserable.
 

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Many would claim the exact opposite MrGoodStuff. I went about 3 months no fap no ejaculation and felt great. I was involuntarily celebate for a few months after my gf and side chick left town. I had no puzzy. Broke the dry spell and realized how stupid i was being. I now have voluntarily have not had sex for 7 months and I feel fine.

I turned down sex from a 23 yr old a few months back ( to be fair she had a bf and i try to stay clean).

I had to go celibate. I was cheating alot. It was ruining my life. When i was getting sex i could not stop thinking about getting more sex with hotter chicks. It is a drug.

You are correct though but i think a man must channel his sexual energy into other things if he is going to be celibate.

I also am sure that you have gotten enough sex in your life. Just having had one girl friend provides enough sexual experience for a lifetime. We smash them hundreds of times. Im sure most men in their 30s and 40s could never have sex again in their lives and they could live. Its not worth degrading ourselves over.

If things work out with the girl i am talking to now I might dive into puzzy again. But for now i feel like a junkie getting clean.
Pandora we ALL are wired different. Sex energizes me. Provides additional clarity, unless I'm dycking down someone who is toxic. I really do not agree with you.

And yeah if you get some you might want some more, but everyone doesn't want or need to be boning several different folks at the same time. Some of us got past that point in life.
 

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Pandora we ALL are wired different. Sex energizes me. Provides additional clarity, unless I'm dycking down someone who is toxic. I really do not agree with you.

And yeah if you get some you might want some more, but everyone doesn't want or need to be boning several different folks at the same time. Some of us got past that point in life.
You are right bro. Everyone is different. Aint nothing wrong with diversity. And you are right. Its not healthy to go forever without sex. I think balance is key.

It is difficult for me to remain balanced sexually with the availability of porn, my girlfriends friends, girls at bars etc. Once I get one I eventually want to sleep with more. For me its better to take frequent breaks.

Didnt mean to come off antagonistic. Its all about balance i agree. I just needed a reset tho. And i agree everyone is different.
 

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You are right bro. Everyone is different. Aint nothing wrong with diversity. And you are right. Its not healthy to go forever without sex. I think balance is key.

It is difficult for me to remain balanced sexually with the availability of porn, my girlfriends friends, girls at bars etc. Once I get one I eventually want to sleep with more. For me its better to take frequent breaks.

Didnt mean to come off antagonistic. Its all about balance i agree. I just needed a reset tho. And i agree everyone is different.
I get you on you. You get one and you feed the beast and it starts over again. I've had all the drama i need for a lifetime behind the ladies so im cool with one reliable lady. That's me.
 

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I get you on you. You get one and you feed the beast and it starts over again. I've had all the drama i need for a lifetime behind the ladies so im cool with one reliable lady. That's me.
I hear that bro. I get it. One woman is ideal.

For me, sex often covers up alot of issues in relationships. Sex serves as a bandaid on red flags. Same for chicks. Sometimes sex blinds blinds women to mens deficiences. Sex is powerful.
 

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I hear that bro. I get it. One woman is ideal.

For me, sex often covers up alot of issues in relationships. Sex serves as a bandaid on red flags. Same for chicks. Sometimes sex blinds blinds women to mens deficiences. Sex is powerful.
Hey dawg, you do need the sex to kill some of the friction, cause while you two might get along, it will be more alot more friction than it has to be versus if the puzzy was flowing...

And that being said, yeah, some good puzzy was the reason a lot of men stood in for terrible situations, because that puzzy covered up how bad it really felt.. Take the puzzzy out and you might feel like complete shyt from her treatments.

With a great lady, puzzy blesses your life! Yes, a good strong woman can blezz your life and throw some powerful puzzy on her man. To provide HER flavor to his life.
 

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I hear that bro. I get it. One woman is ideal.

For me, sex often covers up alot of issues in relationships. Sex serves as a bandaid on red flags. Same for chicks. Sometimes sex blinds blinds women to mens deficiences. Sex is powerful.
even just affection is powerful-kino etc.


When you're a tactile, hands-on/handy sensual type of person who sees beauty in everything and needs to touch things to understand them(like a blind person relying on their touch sense) everything becomes potentially overpowering and can affect your judgement capability.

too much acid in high school can effect that too.

so I've heard.
 

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Well if you are disrespecting your self to get the puzzy thats one thing. But the way im wired im just better and more attractive with sex.

And i can peep other men who i can tell aren't getting any it's completely visible.

On this website years ago even it wss established that women can tell. And they can.

You and i may have to disagree here. But sexual activity is part of the human and emotional experience.

In my view people who don't get it are more stressed, quicker to anger, more of an azzhole or more of a bytch.

Your assertion is similar to saying you received enough positive emotions for a lifetime.

Or you recieved enough love for a lifetime.

You've had enough joy for a lifetime.

Now lets make you miserable.
I agree that women can tell mostly but men can tell too. Most of the time you get sex one way or other when you put energy in to it.

In some cases men can handle the additional work for sex and some get exhaustet later and have a break down.

So it depends some guys should not put that much energy there because the ROI is low.

In general people want social investments. Women do see that some guys don't invest. It's the same with any social interaction. Some people just don't want to invest socially or sexually. There are more things in life out there.

We as society may need thirsty guys to pay the taxes and make children.

When you are mature and don't need drugs (sex) then things look quite different. People who are crazy for sex look like dysfunctional addicts. If you want to evolve that is not something you want to aspire to.
 
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I agree that women can tell mostly but men can tell too. Most of the time you get sex one way or other when you put energy in to it.

In some cases men can handle the additional work for sex and some get exhaustet later and have a break down.

So it depends some guys should not put that much energy there because the ROI is low.

In general people want social investments. Women do see that some guys don't invest. It's the same with any social interaction. Some people just don't want to invest socially or sexually. There are more things in life out there.

We as society may need thirsty guys to pay the taxes and make children.

When you are mature and don't need drugs (sex) then things look quite different. People who are crazy for sex look like dysfunctional addicts. If you want to evolve that is not something you want to aspire to.
Well I'm gonna stay my "freak behind closed doors", like I like to be. You guys evolve into sexless and desireless individuals. It's not me. I know my body and my mind. That ultra "dry" is not for me...
 

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Well I'm gonna stay my "freak behind closed doors", like I like to be. You guys evolve into sexless and desireless individuals. It's not me. I know my body and my mind. That ultra "dry" is not for me...
Well I am talking about general concepts. Not individual situations.
 

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Well I am talking about general concepts. Not individual situations.
I know quite a few perfectly consistently mellow, and singular paced, low to no sexed individuals that don't have a lot of emotion. That's not who I am nor do I desire it to be.

Being a sexual person does not mean I'm out lusting after everyone, or having to stick every babe I see.
 

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I know quite a few perfectly consistently mellow, and singular paced, low to sexed individuals that don't have a lot of emotion. That's not who I am nor do I desire it to be.
awesome and admirable you know yourself so well.
not many can attain that self knowledge so early in life.

you know what keeps you healthiest and happiest mrgoodstuff!
I wish for your sake that you will find more people to surround yourself with your high passion level.
Try not to take it personally when they are hard to find. Hang in there.
 

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I know quite a few perfectly consistently mellow, and singular paced, low to sexed individuals that don't have a lot of emotion. That's not who I am nor do I desire it to be.
Maybe you just didn't quite understand some perspectives. You can channel your energy in other fields than sex. You can even masturbate more emotionally than with a sex partner.

The sublimation theory is about channeling some unwanted energy in other areas.

In general it is not a bad thing to have more alternatives. specially when you see how many men destroy their lives for women.

Later you may come to the sexual market place with more knowledge and with emotional mastery.
 

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Maybe you just didn't quite understand some perspectives. You can channel your energy in other fields than sex. You can even masturbate more emotionally than with a sex partner.

The sublimation theory is about channeling some unwanted energy in other areas.

In general it is not a bad thing to have more alternatives. specially when you see how many men destroy their lives for women.

Later you may come to the sexual market place with more knowledge and with emotional mastery.
I been shut down artificially before. The way I'm wired, I'm better with actual sex. We already covered this years ago. Digital EEG hooked to the brain showed that masturbation and sexual intercourse affect the brain entirely differently! We are social creatures.

I know one super conservative "group" or "cult" who likes to be ultra stiff, no sex , or sex only for procreation and if you need bonding then get a dog, get the fvck outta here! They are sick!

People are designed to kiss, embrace, have emotions, share emotions, feelings, lust, etc. I'm not with it.
 

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I been shut down artificially before. The way I'm wired, I'm better with actual sex. We already covered this years ago. Digital EEG hooked to the brain showed that masturbation and sexual intercourse affect the brain entirely differently! We are social creatures.

I know one super conservative "group" or "cult" who likes to be ultra stiff, no sex , or sex only for procreation and if you need bonding then get a dog, get the fvck outta here! They are sick!

People are designed to kiss, embrace, have emotions, share emotions, feelings, lust, etc. I'm not with it.
Like I said I am not talking about you. Again I am not talking about you.
If it doesn't work for you it is ok.

People are different and there are alternative methods. If you are not
interested in that it is ok but they still exist and many people have better
results with it.

For me thirst is a form of sex addiction. Addicted people are mostly not the best sight in my book.
 
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