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Women cant complete you. Kill the thirst

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Haha anytime you try to tell men that we should find purpose outside of women someone says " who hurt you?".

My last relationship was not terrible. For an average looking guy i have done ok in the dating market. My issue is that dating never fullfilled me like pursuing my goals did.

I wish i had found martial arts much earlier in life. Even though i am not good at it i absolutely love it. This fulfulls me more than chasing women ever did.

Anytime you put fulfillment into any human beinf outside of yourself and God you will ve disappointed. You cant understand this because you are a woman and you are made to be validated by men. Men are different. We were never made to be validated by women.

Paradoxically, when you see obsessed with something the women magically show you in your life.

I need to get back to practicing guitar again. I want to be good at that but i have plateaued. Any guitar players private message me lets chat.
awesome, you make great observations.

Keep chasing excellence and stay on your purpose. You don't seem to be a hurt man, sorry if that insulted man.
 

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Bro exactly. We have become so obsessed with the pleasure of intercourse that we cant admit our enslavement. Porn is the most widely used drug in the United States yet men still argue that we are not addicted to puzzy.

1.) Look at all the men that are stuck paying child support because of their addiction to puzzy.

2.) Look at the men who have died because of a jealous bf that killed them over puzzy

3.) Look at men who have betrayed their friends over puzzy

4.) Look at men who have contracted sti's over puzz

5.) Look at War Machine the guy who could have been a UFC star who is in prison for life over BPD puzzy‍

The Bible is full of stories warning men about the power of puzzy including the very first story.

I could go on and on. This rabbi i saw on youtube once said " a mans greatest challenge is his libido, an womans greatest challenge is her emotional stability" ..paraphrased of course.

No one is saying dont ever have sex. I am saying he careful becuase the more you feed the beast the hungrier it gets.
I used to watch rabbis on 'messages' program out of Toronto back in mid 2000's when I dated my Jewish exboyfriend.

Excellent rabbis out there.
 

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awesome, you make great observations.

Keep chasing excellence and stay on your purpose. You don't seem to be a hurt man, sorry if that insulted man.
I know you didn't mean it as an insult. I am just saying that women are happier when men have real purpose. Men are also happier. Everyone wins. Women find it incredibly sexy when a man is motivated and disciplined. I used to be a horn dog. I thought it aroused women. It did but I never gained their respect. If women know they can manipulate you with sex, then they will never ever respect you.
 

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I know you didn't mean it as an insult. I am just saying that women are happier when men have real purpose. Men are also happier. Everyone wins. Women find it incredibly sexy when a man is motivated and disciplined. I used to be a horn dog. I thought it aroused women. It did but I never gained their respect. If women know they can manipulate you with sex, then they will never ever respect you.
well written, hopefully you don't leave this forum permanently.

Still have a lot to share with newcomers please.
 

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You still don't get it. You are supposed to feel something before each young-tight-hot ass. It is a feature, not a bug. This ass has power over you, so what ? You also have power over it, you can slap it. This is what life is about. Your concern about power should be directed towards the 1%, not the girl next door.
Bro I do get it. I loooooove the female form. Trust me. Our sex drive is our greatest strength. But ones greatest strength is often your greatest weakness. The same sex drive that motivated men to create civilizations is the same sex drive that can cause that very civilization to crumble.

No, the concern about power should be directed inside. We should concern ourselves with conquering our own inner demons ( lust). The 1% will disappear if we all transformed ourselves. I am not fighting the girl next door. I am reclaiming my power. Or atleast trying to. One step at a time.
 

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well written, hopefully you don't leave this forum permanently.

Still have a lot to share with newcomers please.
Thank you for the compliment. I just want guys to realize that we cant keep blaming women. We cant keep saying " oh females these days are garbage". Yes I agree. But they are a reflection of men. We are the ones giving the garbage females the fuel to rule over us. Once men become higher quality, then females will be higher quality.

When I attracted sluts it was because I was a slut. Look at all the thousands of men that contribute to Only Fans pages. Then we have the nerve to say women are garbage. If I had that much power over men I would be garbage also.
 

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Thank you for the compliment. I just want guys to realize that we cant keep blaming women. We cant keep saying " oh females these days are garbage". Yes I agree. But they are a reflection of men. We are the ones giving the garbage females the fuel to rule over us. Once men become higher quality, then females will be higher quality.

When I attracted sluts it was because I was a slut. Look at all the thousands of men that contribute to Only Fans pages. Then we have the nerve to say women are garbage. If I had that much power over men I would be garbage also.
that's a masturbation site? chatterbate type thing?
 

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This sounds like a no-fap thread, but instead of fapping it's actual sex. It's good to hear more perspectives that show the fornication is not only a sin that can land you into hell, but it's just a stupid idea overall. One must simply get married or remain celibate and that's that.
 

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This sounds like a no-fap thread, but instead of fapping it's actual sex. It's good to hear more perspectives that show the fornication is not only a sin that can land you into hell, but it's just a stupid idea overall. One must simply get married or remain celibate and that's that.
I think the philosophy is more about controlling not avoiding
 

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lol, they're prostitutes. In the definition of the word.







It is an incredible feeling to go without sex for many years.

I've done this a couple of times now.

You do forget how(a little bit, I'm not joking)
For a man it's an incredibly demasculating feeling to go without sex for years. A sexless man is not a sexually attractive man.
 

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For a man it's an incredibly demasculating feeling to go without sex for years. A sexless man is not a sexually attractive man.
I believe and accept this.
This thread probably got on your nerves.

I guess a man would just have to keep up his testosterone in other ways besides sex.
I know from your other posts on Sosuave that you believe puzzy gives more in terms of chemicals/spirituality/intimacy...the whole gamut
 
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I believe and accept this.
This thread probably got on your nerves.

I guess a man would just have to keep up his testosterone in other ways besides sex.
I know from your other posts on Sosuave that you believe puzzy gives more in terms of chemicals/spirituality/intimacy...the whole gamut
There is something to Ayn rands model of super ego, like not seeing sex as the thing that drives the world, personally I think as older you get and understand how the model truly works the less you believe in all this stuff, even if you Elon musk or Tesla. Someday you realize that nobody give a crap about the things you done to the world, everybody cares about them selves. This would go forever this is the nature of things. But you can be still both
 

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There is something to Ayn rands model of super ego, like not seeing sex as the thing that drives the world, personally I think as older you get and understand how the model truly works the less you believe in all this stuff, even if you Elon musk or Tesla. Someday you realize that nobody give a crap about the things you done to the world, everybody cares about them selves. This would go forever this is the nature of things. But you can be still both
I tried dating an exboyfriend again years later. When I dated him, I was fecund.
The second time around I'm this lady who is infertile and trying to philosophically explain to him how I see men and women and nature and the world differently.......just went over his head, he didn't want to philosophise with me....awwww.
I think you might get it though Jack12345
 

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I believe and accept this.
This thread probably got on your nerves.

I guess a man would just have to keep up his testosterone in other ways besides sex.
I know from your other posts on Sosuave that you believe puzzy gives more in terms of chemicals/spirituality/intimacy...the whole gamut
Sex is an additional boost of testosterone over the other ways. It tells his mind and psyche that he's a desired man. Sex also reduces stress and anxiety making him look calmer and cooler under disruption. Sex greases, shines and builds his sexual aura. Which is visible and some call it "swag". Without it he looks like a healthy, maybe more stressed but fit guy who must not be getting any.

I remember working with many men starved by their wives. Even as a man i could tell they didn't have sex.

They were more stressed. And more easily disturbed people. Greater levels of visible anxiety. They just don't look sexual or virile. Although they might be able to kick somrones azz. We all knew they were sexless and frustrated.

A sexless man is going to be less charming. Dryer. Probably more of an azz. Very hard to be truly happy that way.
 

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I believe and accept this.
This thread probably got on your nerves.

I guess a man would just have to keep up his testosterone in other ways besides sex.
I know from your other posts on Sosuave that you believe puzzy gives more in terms of chemicals/spirituality/intimacy...the whole gamut
Yes and those ultra conservative who forgot about it or only use it for procreation are missing out on somethin
I believe and accept this.
This thread probably got on your nerves.

I guess a man would just have to keep up his testosterone in other ways besides sex.
I know from your other posts on Sosuave that you believe puzzy gives more in terms of chemicals/spirituality/intimacy...the whole gamut
Ask sexual guys.
 

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I believe and accept this.
This thread probably got on your nerves.

I guess a man would just have to keep up his testosterone in other ways besides sex.
I know from your other posts on Sosuave that you believe puzzy gives more in terms of chemicals/spirituality/intimacy...the whole gamut
If you were "making" a well put together man you'd leave out sex and intimacy?
 

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There is something to Ayn rands model of super ego, like not seeing sex as the thing that drives the world, personally I think as older you get and understand how the model truly works the less you believe in all this stuff, even if you Elon musk or Tesla. Someday you realize that nobody give a crap about the things you done to the world, everybody cares about them selves. This would go forever this is the nature of things. But you can be still both
you know,tesla is more or less outside the line correct? everything in life we do is for sex, more power/money/going to the gym is all for sex, sex bring higher self esteem, with makes you ego feels better with in sum will make you feel better, even when you understand this and control your ego, you will still feel his effects, naming people who you belive is not the rule only means most are like this, with makes the rule
 

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I am just saying that women are happier when men have real purpose. Men are also happier. Everyone wins. Women find it incredibly sexy when a man is motivated and disciplined. I used to be a horn dog. I thought it aroused women. It did but I never gained their respect. If women know they can manipulate you with sex, then they will never ever respect you.
Man I wish there was space in my signature for this citation next to LA85's "base truth" statement that I already have there, this is the gospel truth that all men will be better for if only they are able to live up to it (which is the problem with lust). I would plate this into my fvcking forehead.
 
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