awesome, you make great observations.Haha anytime you try to tell men that we should find purpose outside of women someone says " who hurt you?".
My last relationship was not terrible. For an average looking guy i have done ok in the dating market. My issue is that dating never fullfilled me like pursuing my goals did.
I wish i had found martial arts much earlier in life. Even though i am not good at it i absolutely love it. This fulfulls me more than chasing women ever did.
Anytime you put fulfillment into any human beinf outside of yourself and God you will ve disappointed. You cant understand this because you are a woman and you are made to be validated by men. Men are different. We were never made to be validated by women.
Paradoxically, when you see obsessed with something the women magically show you in your life.
I need to get back to practicing guitar again. I want to be good at that but i have plateaued. Any guitar players private message me lets chat.
Keep chasing excellence and stay on your purpose. You don't seem to be a hurt man, sorry if that insulted man.