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Women calls Police

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if you say "I want to Fcuk you to a women "

if the women calls cops for this
Can you get arrested for saying this in NYC/USA ?
 

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This worked with dbot without the police being called:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=55957

People on here post threads like this and how successful they are.

Now, when someone else does it and fails, now they are 'indecent' and deserve to get arrested? Why? Because he's not as attractive or polished as dbot was on the delivery of this so he deserves to go to jail?
 

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The sexual harassment question is a common one, so allow me to address it:

Sexual harassment is generally classified as undesired sexual advances. By itself, asking a woman if she'd like to fuck is not illegal. Sure, if you're in a public place and she complains to security, they may ask you to leave. But that alone is not going to get you thrown in jail.

However, if she tells you to get lost and you continue to bother her, that is harassment.

It sounds pretty cut and dry, but the harassment line blurs when the woman isn't 100% clear on her position (even if she thinks she is). This is especially common in the workplace, where a woman may pretend to laugh at her boss' sexual jokes because she's afraid to be blunt with him.

The bottom line? Asking a stranger if she wants to fuck is definitely not the smartest approach, but so long as you respect your boundaries, I wouldn't worry too much about any serious legal consequences. I also live in Southern California, so don't assume this applies to you if you're living in a small, conservative town in Utah, for example.
 

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dbot said:
However, if she tells you to get lost and you continue to bother her, that is harassment.
In your experience, you would have got some nasty responses with openers like 'wanna ****', but nobody threatened to call the police. What are some of the nasty responses you got? Suppose a woman really does call the police?


dbot said:
The bottom line? Asking a stranger if she wants to fuck is definitely not the smartest approach, but so long as you respect your boundaries, I wouldn't worry too much about any serious legal consequences.
It seemed to be the smartest approach because you are playing a direct number's game. If you are looking for sex, then you are being straight. There is no 'game-playing' or any nonsence to get to that goal.


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I also live in Southern California, so don't assume this applies to you if you're living in a small, conservative town in Utah, for example.
The other poster lives in New York City, USA, which is supposed to be crowded. This means, there is a risk you could get into trouble with the law.

Even if you are right -- you are going to tell the cops you all you are doing is asking women out there in public if they want to have sex with you? You could still get charged with loitering and being a public nuisance.

If it is only one person complaining on you, then you'd have to say you just approached this one person and hope no one else makes a complaint, and say you through she was someone you slept with before and made a mistake.
 

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The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It did happen

I walked away and she chased me for 5 mins walking by myside ,SCREAMING,YELLING ,thinking I will get arrested if the police does show up,

And the public was starring
WHY is this Women chasing a Man walking away (I was not running)

I could have stayed back and get her arrested for Chasing/Touching/Stopping me twice in front of me

Govt/Police see Men as bad guys ,Did not take a chance.

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The other poster lives in New York City, USA, which is supposed to be crowded. This means, there is a risk you could get into trouble with the law.

Even if you are right -- you are going to tell the cops you all you are doing is asking women out there in public if they want to have sex with you? You could still get charged with loitering and being a public nuisance.
 

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Whoa, you really found a psychotic woman there, man. Chasing you down the street for 5 minutes? That's out of control. I think what SHE did is the more serious crime, and that's assuming what you did is a crime in the first place. Sexual harassment is indeed "unwanted" sexual advances, but you would be unable to determine that until you actually made that advance. If she said "stop" or "I'm not interested", and you continued...then you're crossing into illegal territory.

Regardless, you live in NYC, dude. You know what the NYPD is like. I'd LOVE to listen in on the other line when a woman calls up and says, "Yeah, this dude just said that he wants to f*ck me." I'd be taking bets on whether they'd just start cracking up, and gathering coworkers around to hear the call or if the dispatcher would just hang up. The LAST thing that would happen is them actually showing up to the call.
 

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corrector said:
It seemed to be the smartest approach because you are playing a direct number's game. If you are looking for sex, then you are being straight. There is no 'game-playing' or any nonsence to get to that goal.
Want to play the numbers game? Try this one:

"Hi, what's your name?"
"Rebecca."
"Rebecca, sorry if I'm being rather forward, but I happen to find you extremely attractive. Want to come home with me?"

I'm willing to bet you'll be much more effective saying that as opposed to "hey wanna fuck?" You also won't receive nearly as many negative responses.

As far as negative responses I got when I did this, most women just turned and walked away. A few called me an asshole or something similar. Others laughed or rolled their eyes in a condescending manner.
 

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cola, don't forget incredibly good looking with a supermodel's body. There was a time not too long ago, before a car accident, when all I had to do was stay quiet and women would throw themselves at me (had sisqo abs, 8% BF, 16" arms pure muscle). I don't credit looks with all of the success, but it sure does make success easier.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dbot said:
Want to play the numbers game? Try this one:

"Hi, what's your name?"
"Rebecca."
"Rebecca, sorry if I'm being rather forward, but I happen to find you extremely attractive. Want to come home with me?"

I'm willing to bet you'll be much more effective saying that as opposed to "hey wanna fuck?" You also won't receive nearly as many negative responses.

As far as negative responses I got when I did this, most women just turned and walked away. A few called me an asshole or something similar. Others laughed or rolled their eyes in a condescending manner.
Thank-you dbot.
 

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found this thread searching NYC

NYC has many high traffic public places
Union Square/Manhattan Mall ..

Anyone else up to do this in NYC
 
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To those that say that looks doesnt matter I would like to say that actually look many time provides you sex and save you from jail.

The difference between seduction and harassment is the beauty of the man.
 

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Interesting thread. I'm having my own little dilemma concerning some of these issues in public. For example, I'll go to Wal Mart and walk around and buy some small item(like gum or cereal lol) and look for women to approach. Could I get in trouble or thrown out if I try to do a pick-up while a women is in line while a cashier/worker and possibly 10 other people are watching?
I really have anxieties about approaching women in line because of this, I don't want to lose my sarging venue, but I do want to approach girls in line sometimes. LOL Yeah, this is Day Game in the rural south, what else am I going to do, hang out at a gas station?
I'll just do it before I go to training or something, it's better than staying on the computer at the house.
 

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What in the world made you think that would work...

First you must learn some basic communication skills.

Then you start a convo with a girl. Some small talk, then invite her to your place for a drink. Simple as pie.

If she says yes, then take it from there. If she says no, then meet for coffee and invite her to your place after.
 

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