"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women calls Police

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if you say "I want to Fcuk you to a women "

if the women calls cops for this
Can you get arrested for saying this in NYC/USA ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This worked with dbot without the police being called:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=55957

People on here post threads like this and how successful they are.

Now, when someone else does it and fails, now they are 'indecent' and deserve to get arrested? Why? Because he's not as attractive or polished as dbot was on the delivery of this so he deserves to go to jail?
 

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The sexual harassment question is a common one, so allow me to address it:

Sexual harassment is generally classified as undesired sexual advances. By itself, asking a woman if she'd like to fuck is not illegal. Sure, if you're in a public place and she complains to security, they may ask you to leave. But that alone is not going to get you thrown in jail.

However, if she tells you to get lost and you continue to bother her, that is harassment.

It sounds pretty cut and dry, but the harassment line blurs when the woman isn't 100% clear on her position (even if she thinks she is). This is especially common in the workplace, where a woman may pretend to laugh at her boss' sexual jokes because she's afraid to be blunt with him.

The bottom line? Asking a stranger if she wants to fuck is definitely not the smartest approach, but so long as you respect your boundaries, I wouldn't worry too much about any serious legal consequences. I also live in Southern California, so don't assume this applies to you if you're living in a small, conservative town in Utah, for example.
 

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dbot said:
However, if she tells you to get lost and you continue to bother her, that is harassment.
In your experience, you would have got some nasty responses with openers like 'wanna ****', but nobody threatened to call the police. What are some of the nasty responses you got? Suppose a woman really does call the police?


dbot said:
The bottom line? Asking a stranger if she wants to fuck is definitely not the smartest approach, but so long as you respect your boundaries, I wouldn't worry too much about any serious legal consequences.
It seemed to be the smartest approach because you are playing a direct number's game. If you are looking for sex, then you are being straight. There is no 'game-playing' or any nonsence to get to that goal.


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I also live in Southern California, so don't assume this applies to you if you're living in a small, conservative town in Utah, for example.
The other poster lives in New York City, USA, which is supposed to be crowded. This means, there is a risk you could get into trouble with the law.

Even if you are right -- you are going to tell the cops you all you are doing is asking women out there in public if they want to have sex with you? You could still get charged with loitering and being a public nuisance.

If it is only one person complaining on you, then you'd have to say you just approached this one person and hope no one else makes a complaint, and say you through she was someone you slept with before and made a mistake.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It did happen

I walked away and she chased me for 5 mins walking by myside ,SCREAMING,YELLING ,thinking I will get arrested if the police does show up,

And the public was starring
WHY is this Women chasing a Man walking away (I was not running)

I could have stayed back and get her arrested for Chasing/Touching/Stopping me twice in front of me

Govt/Police see Men as bad guys ,Did not take a chance.

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The other poster lives in New York City, USA, which is supposed to be crowded. This means, there is a risk you could get into trouble with the law.

Even if you are right -- you are going to tell the cops you all you are doing is asking women out there in public if they want to have sex with you? You could still get charged with loitering and being a public nuisance.
 

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Whoa, you really found a psychotic woman there, man. Chasing you down the street for 5 minutes? That's out of control. I think what SHE did is the more serious crime, and that's assuming what you did is a crime in the first place. Sexual harassment is indeed "unwanted" sexual advances, but you would be unable to determine that until you actually made that advance. If she said "stop" or "I'm not interested", and you continued...then you're crossing into illegal territory.

Regardless, you live in NYC, dude. You know what the NYPD is like. I'd LOVE to listen in on the other line when a woman calls up and says, "Yeah, this dude just said that he wants to f*ck me." I'd be taking bets on whether they'd just start cracking up, and gathering coworkers around to hear the call or if the dispatcher would just hang up. The LAST thing that would happen is them actually showing up to the call.
 

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corrector said:
It seemed to be the smartest approach because you are playing a direct number's game. If you are looking for sex, then you are being straight. There is no 'game-playing' or any nonsence to get to that goal.
Want to play the numbers game? Try this one:

"Hi, what's your name?"
"Rebecca."
"Rebecca, sorry if I'm being rather forward, but I happen to find you extremely attractive. Want to come home with me?"

I'm willing to bet you'll be much more effective saying that as opposed to "hey wanna fuck?" You also won't receive nearly as many negative responses.

As far as negative responses I got when I did this, most women just turned and walked away. A few called me an asshole or something similar. Others laughed or rolled their eyes in a condescending manner.
 

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cola, don't forget incredibly good looking with a supermodel's body. There was a time not too long ago, before a car accident, when all I had to do was stay quiet and women would throw themselves at me (had sisqo abs, 8% BF, 16" arms pure muscle). I don't credit looks with all of the success, but it sure does make success easier.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dbot said:
Want to play the numbers game? Try this one:

"Hi, what's your name?"
"Rebecca."
"Rebecca, sorry if I'm being rather forward, but I happen to find you extremely attractive. Want to come home with me?"

I'm willing to bet you'll be much more effective saying that as opposed to "hey wanna fuck?" You also won't receive nearly as many negative responses.

As far as negative responses I got when I did this, most women just turned and walked away. A few called me an asshole or something similar. Others laughed or rolled their eyes in a condescending manner.
Thank-you dbot.
 

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found this thread searching NYC

NYC has many high traffic public places
Union Square/Manhattan Mall ..

Anyone else up to do this in NYC
 
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To those that say that looks doesnt matter I would like to say that actually look many time provides you sex and save you from jail.

The difference between seduction and harassment is the beauty of the man.
 

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Interesting thread. I'm having my own little dilemma concerning some of these issues in public. For example, I'll go to Wal Mart and walk around and buy some small item(like gum or cereal lol) and look for women to approach. Could I get in trouble or thrown out if I try to do a pick-up while a women is in line while a cashier/worker and possibly 10 other people are watching?
I really have anxieties about approaching women in line because of this, I don't want to lose my sarging venue, but I do want to approach girls in line sometimes. LOL Yeah, this is Day Game in the rural south, what else am I going to do, hang out at a gas station?
I'll just do it before I go to training or something, it's better than staying on the computer at the house.
 

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What in the world made you think that would work...

First you must learn some basic communication skills.

Then you start a convo with a girl. Some small talk, then invite her to your place for a drink. Simple as pie.

If she says yes, then take it from there. If she says no, then meet for coffee and invite her to your place after.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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