I'm curious what other peoples thoughts are on sharing your wife in a threesome with another guy? We are a couple that have been together for 8+ years, very happily married and have a great sex life together, however, there is one sexual fantasy I would like to become reality. I've always been a bit of a sexual deviant and like to push the limits of sexual boundaries, something we both really enjoy. One thing I really love is when my wife plays with a lifelike dildo pretending it's from another guy (I won't go into details but you get the picture). I've played with the idea of putting this into reality and eventually asked my wife if she would be willing to try it out....but the answer was a resounding NO! Fantasy is one thing, reality is another....and I would certainly not in a million years try to force her to do anything she didn't completely want to do. She is much younger than I am and stunningly good looking (I am not...lol) and I know I should be very happy with what I have and forget it, but the idea of another guy participating in a threesome with us is for me the biggest turn on ever. Oddly enough (or not) I have absolutely no desire for a threesome with another female. while this is often regarded as the ultimate male fantasy.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Mate I have carried out this fantasy a couple of times.. However this is best done with a Fuk buddy... Not your wife.
Too many problems can arise from your wife taking other mens DIKS.
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I'm free this weekend.
That's very generous of you.
A DJ must always strive to be magnanimous to his fellow men.
marmel75
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Yeah like her realizing they are a hell of a lot better in the bedroom than OP and her starting to do this stuff without you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Yeh next thing op knows, he has been cucked.. OP could end up as the clean up guy, after multiple dudes have emptied the mother load inside her.
It's a slippery slope.. I would only get involved with this kinda practice with fuk buddies or plates.
mrgoodstuff
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They can know your good with your c0ck and cuck you for raw POWER. I told the story of the $300k/yr salesman, former chippendales model guy? His ice cold sexy latina wife loved denying him to steal his POWER. Feminism does not like sexual power in males.
Yeah, I get that and do appreciate there is a risk element but the turn on for me is seeing my own wife in sexual ecstasy with 2 guys , one of who would be myself. (I'm unsure if I'm allowed to give a more graphic reply here?).
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mrgoodstuff
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To many here your displaying a cuck viewpoint.
I think you have to make a distinction between love and sex, but I do agree there is a risk element you can't totally ignore.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm most definitely not a cuckold that includes humiliation and shaming.....think of it more as the definition of hot wife sharing.
mrgoodstuff
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We dont mind as long as she gets to witness you as the stud with other females.
The modern feminist just hates males, period!
mrgoodstuff
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If she knows you value your c0ck and your sexuality you know she will try to attack it, damage it, break it.... And employ other males to assist her efforts.
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This is one of the worst ideas I’ve ever seen on this site. Complete cuckoldry
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Thats on him for not just laughing, shrugging his shoulders and going out and finding someone else.
mrgoodstuff
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It is. His ego couldnt handle that she didnt want him. He oneitised her. Man will learn.
Yes. The only real life example I know of was my friends wife divorcing him for a new dik within a year of him sexually threesome sharing her…
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.