I'm curious what other peoples thoughts are on sharing your wife in a threesome with another guy? We are a couple that have been together for 8+ years, very happily married and have a great sex life together, however, there is one sexual fantasy I would like to become reality. I've always been a bit of a sexual deviant and like to push the limits of sexual boundaries, something we both really enjoy. One thing I really love is when my wife plays with a lifelike dildo pretending it's from another guy (I won't go into details but you get the picture). I've played with the idea of putting this into reality and eventually asked my wife if she would be willing to try it out....but the answer was a resounding NO! Fantasy is one thing, reality is another....and I would certainly not in a million years try to force her to do anything she didn't completely want to do. She is much younger than I am and stunningly good looking (I am not...lol) and I know I should be very happy with what I have and forget it, but the idea of another guy participating in a threesome with us is for me the biggest turn on ever. Oddly enough (or not) I have absolutely no desire for a threesome with another female. while this is often regarded as the ultimate male fantasy.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
soulforge
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Mate I have carried out this fantasy a couple of times.. However this is best done with a Fuk buddy... Not your wife.
Too many problems can arise from your wife taking other mens DIKS.
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I'm free this weekend.
That's very generous of you.
A DJ must always strive to be magnanimous to his fellow men.
marmel75
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Yeah like her realizing they are a hell of a lot better in the bedroom than OP and her starting to do this stuff without you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
soulforge
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Yeh next thing op knows, he has been cucked.. OP could end up as the clean up guy, after multiple dudes have emptied the mother load inside her.
It's a slippery slope.. I would only get involved with this kinda practice with fuk buddies or plates.
mrgoodstuff
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They can know your good with your c0ck and cuck you for raw POWER. I told the story of the $300k/yr salesman, former chippendales model guy? His ice cold sexy latina wife loved denying him to steal his POWER. Feminism does not like sexual power in males.
Yeah, I get that and do appreciate there is a risk element but the turn on for me is seeing my own wife in sexual ecstasy with 2 guys , one of who would be myself. (I'm unsure if I'm allowed to give a more graphic reply here?).
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mrgoodstuff
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To many here your displaying a cuck viewpoint.
I think you have to make a distinction between love and sex, but I do agree there is a risk element you can't totally ignore.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm most definitely not a cuckold that includes humiliation and shaming.....think of it more as the definition of hot wife sharing.
mrgoodstuff
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We dont mind as long as she gets to witness you as the stud with other females.
The modern feminist just hates males, period!
mrgoodstuff
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If she knows you value your c0ck and your sexuality you know she will try to attack it, damage it, break it.... And employ other males to assist her efforts.
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This is one of the worst ideas I’ve ever seen on this site. Complete cuckoldry
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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marmel75
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Thats on him for not just laughing, shrugging his shoulders and going out and finding someone else.
mrgoodstuff
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It is. His ego couldnt handle that she didnt want him. He oneitised her. Man will learn.
Yes. The only real life example I know of was my friends wife divorcing him for a new dik within a year of him sexually threesome sharing her…
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.