Wife Sharing

[RangerMIke]

Been there, but I was always the dude that was brought in (not my GF or wife), but mostly this happened 25 years ago, when I was in the Army, however I did have one somewhat recent experience three years ago with a women who is a friend of mine and her boyfriend at the time. They split up soon after (I wonder why?) and this chick and I still on occasion hook up, but it has been awhile since the last time I saw her.

The last time I really didn't enjoy it so much, and I don't think I'll be doing that again, I'm just getting too old for really crazy sh!t.

 

[speed dawg]

Trollin' all of ya'll.

 

[soulforge]

I’m completely confident in my sex game and would love nothing more than to have a girl and another couple who like to swap, not often maybe once every couple months and no gay stuff between us men.

I have done this before.. However for me it was more about having power over the chick (sub role)

I have to give zero fuks about the chick.. So other dudes smashing her, didn't bother me in the slightest.

Would I do something like this in a committed relationship? Probably not.. Too many things can go wrong.

 

[Murk]

I've thought about doing this with plates I'm smashing and I've tried to get a recent plate to do it, she toyed with the idea but ultimately when my best friend started kissing her neck she freaked out and had a change of heart.

Would not do this with a GF I don't think... maybe... I've thought about it... the degradation aspect is a turn on for me slightly, like the idea of having a plate bang you then making your dog bang her after (or before, don't ask, I know bestiality is illegal and I wouldn't actually do it).

NEVER wife though, that's sacred, that's the mother of your children FFS. Imagine your kids found out mum was a fvck toy for random men and dad allowed it. disgusting emasculating behaviour we shouldn't condone hotwifing on SS.

 

[Bible_Belt]

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Every fantasy has a reverse. There are women who get off on their man cheating.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've thought about doing this with plates I'm smashing and I've tried to get a recent plate to do it, she toyed with the idea but ultimately when my best friend started kissing her neck she freaked out and had a change of heart.

Would not do this with a GF I don't think... maybe... I've thought about it... the degradation aspect is a turn on for me slightly, like the idea of having a plate bang you then making your dog bang her after (or before, don't ask, I know bestiality is illegal and I wouldn't actually do it).

NEVER wife though, that's sacred, that's the mother of your children FFS. Imagine your kids found out mum was a fvck toy for random men and dad allowed it. disgusting emasculating behaviour we shouldn't condone hotwifing on SS.

To our culture "wife" and "husband" means nothing sacred at all.

 

[highSpeed]

I'm curious what other peoples thoughts are on sharing your wife in a threesome with another guy? We are a couple that have been together for 8+ years, very happily married and have a great sex life together, however, there is one sexual fantasy I would like to become reality. I've always been a bit of a sexual deviant and like to push the limits of sexual boundaries, something we both really enjoy. One thing I really love is when my wife plays with a lifelike dildo pretending it's from another guy (I won't go into details but you get the picture). I've played with the idea of putting this into reality and eventually asked my wife if she would be willing to try it out....but the answer was a resounding NO! Fantasy is one thing, reality is another....and I would certainly not in a million years try to force her to do anything she didn't completely want to do. She is much younger than I am and stunningly good looking (I am not...lol) and I know I should be very happy with what I have and forget it, but the idea of another guy participating in a threesome with us is for me the biggest turn on ever. Oddly enough (or not) I have absolutely no desire for a threesome with another female. while this is often regarded as the ultimate male fantasy.

I'm assuming you have some sort of self respect issues. Like the other posters on here have already said mostly, a plate activity, not a wife/LTR activity. If she really is stunning and you not so much, you've inviting danger into your marriage. If you're successful, she's going to eventually end up taking you to the cleaners mate. Even if you have enough money that a significant chunk would not leave you high and dry, why would you want to do that with your wife?

If you're that desperate, it's going to end in divorce anyway, negotiate an exit while you are both level headed and there's no emotion or less anyway and move on to doing this with plates. You're opening up a pandora's box that will literally explode in your face. Once she starts wanting other random dudes to pound her on the regular, it's over for you, plain and simple. Once she knows she's got you as a soft landing with your resources to catch her once she hits the wall? It's c*ck carousel all the way.

Dude, look inside yourself first, the best answer is fixing whatever is going on between your ears that makes this a sexual fantasy for you.

 

[soulforge]

I'm assuming you have some sort of self respect issues. Like the other posters on here have already said mostly, a plate activity, not a wife/LTR activity. If she really is stunning and you not so much, you've inviting danger into your marriage. If you're successful, she's going to eventually end up taking you to the cleaners mate. Even if you have enough money that a significant chunk would not leave you high and dry, why would you want to do that with your wife?

If you're that desperate, it's going to end in divorce anyway, negotiate an exit while you are both level headed and there's no emotion or less anyway and move on to doing this with plates. You're opening up a pandora's box that will literally explode in your face. Once she starts wanting other random dudes to pound her on the regular, it's over for you, plain and simple. Once she knows she's got you as a soft landing with your resources to catch her once she hits the wall? It's c*ck carousel all the way.

Dude, look inside yourself first, the best answer is fixing whatever is going on between your ears that makes this a sexual fantasy for you.

He needs to stop watching porn.

 

[GrowingPains]

Why'd you marry her if you want her to have other d!cks?

 

[Atom Smasher]

That's very generous of you.

A DJ must always strive to be magnanimous to his fellow men.

Ha! I’m sure there would be no shortage of generous volunteers.

Look what happened with backbreaker. He started an open relationship with another couple, and a few months later was ready to kick his wife to the curb for some brand new piece of ass that he found. Last I heard they stayed together, but nothing good can come out of this, OP.

 

[Billtx49]

Ha! I’m sure there would be no shortage of generous volunteers.

Look what happened with backbreaker. He started an open relationship with another couple, and a few months later was ready to kick his wife to the curb for some brand new piece of ass that he found. Last I heard they stayed together, but nothing good can come out of this, OP.

Yep, it’s quite easy for both males and females to start thinking that new ass beats old ass.…

 

[In2theGame]

Ha! I’m sure there would be no shortage of generous volunteers.

Look what happened with backbreaker. He started an open relationship with another couple, and a few months later was ready to kick his wife to the curb for some brand new piece of ass that he found. Last I heard they stayed together, but nothing good can come out of this, OP.

Whatever happened to him? Haven't seen him around in such a long time.

 

[In2theGame]

Agree with what some others have said in terms of a potential disaster for the marriage and relationship. What'll likely happen is that the Wife (If she enjoyed it) will want to keep doing it and eventually feel it's alright to start fvcking guys behind the husbands back. She'll justify in her mind that (He lets me fvck another guy so it should be ok). Once Women are let loose sexually, that's it. The sexual female beast is out in full force. If you accept that then it's whatever you feel fine with but ultimately you will be living on the planet of the cuckolds. Depending on how wild she is, she might even start wanting a MMMF group lol. Overall it's your call but keep in mind, you risk the destruction of your Marriage/Relationship.

 

[Spaz]

My previous post is meant to be a gentle sarcasm, always been my believe that when a man is married he should not engage with another woman.

There's no such thing as male - female platonic relationship, it's a lie.

No woman truly has a bestie, they're too competitive with each other that any true bonding could ever take place, hence their lack loyalty, even if they have it - it's fleeting at best, highly dependent on situation.

Knowledge of that alone should point OP in the right direction.

Get ur wife in a dom outfit and standby for some whipping sessions OP, that should satisfy ur passive needs.

Yeah most if not all expressives engages in this, with em having heightened emotions and all - just do it in another fashion to remain relevant in ur marriage.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Yup, we got the sarcasm. At least I did. Funny stuff...

 

[Zipppy]

Yes. The only real life example I know of was my friends wife divorcing him for a new dik within a year of him sexually threesome sharing her…

Yep, That does happen.....it is a genuine risk you have to take on board before you even consider doing this. I like to think we have a very strong relationship, but you never know.

 

[Zipppy]

My previous post is meant to be a gentle sarcasm, always been my believe that when a man is married he should not engage with another woman.

There's no such thing as male - female platonic relationship, it's a lie.

No woman truly has a bestie, they're too competitive with each other that any true bonding could ever take place, hence their lack loyalty, even if they have it - it's fleeting at best, highly dependent on situation.

Knowledge of that alone should point OP in the right direction.

Get ur wife in a dom outfit and standby for some whipping sessions OP, that should satisfy ur passive needs.

Yeah most if not all expressives engages in this, with em having heightened emotions and all - just do it in another fashion to remain relevant in ur marriage.

I think you misunderstand to a degree. We are totally not into SM or cuckolding, that's a totally different world.....and it also has nothing to with passive needs.

 

[Billtx49]

I like to think we have a very strong relationship, but you never know.

Never underestimate the variability and flexibility of the female psyche if you decide to pursue this path…

 

[Spaz]

I think you misunderstand to a degree. We are totally not into SM or cuckolding, that's a totally different world.....and it also has nothing to with passive needs.

I understand you perfectly well.

It's you not understanding ur wife and how this trajectory u r undertaking will lead you to bouts of jealousy and ultimately a heartbreaking divorce.

I'll lay out the future for you, your wife does not have ur emotional depth (sexual or otherwise) to be able to withstand it, she will change, and when she does ur jealousy will kick into overdrive because you no longer get 100% of her emotionally.

Whilst you have all the needed emotional depth to sustain this lifestyle, she doesn't, she can try to meet it but she can never sustain it as you wish.

Hence my advice, it is after all ur choice, just make a choice after you're digested all the information here.

 

[GrowingPains]

I think a better question is whether OP thinks it's worth it to and can still this desire. She's already said no. Resoundingly. So at this point it's not even an option. Then discussing whether she can remain emotionally dedicated to OP is a moot point.

Do you think you can push this desire aside? Or do you think it will increase in intensity? If the desire grows... What will you do? From my point of view... It is likely that it'd only increase. As I've experienced my sexual desires onnly increase if not met. And the fact that you're posting about it, potentially looking for justifications to go back to her with(?), after she said no.

What's your game plan?