Solomon
Master Don Juan
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GLORY AWAITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GLORY AWAITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Man I wish I was in Miami....squirrels said:You in Miami, Solo?
I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do.![]()
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.Solomon said:Man I wish I was in Miami....
lol
I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
You hear a lot about how much game has helped some guys.Squirrels said:I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.
The middle-ground is something of a tightrope
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=successsquirrels said:I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.
I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.
I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.
The middle-ground is something of a tightrope.![]()
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air.Solomon said:Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success
If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)
Didn't go out on friday was to tired.
Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
squirrels said:I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.