"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whose Hitting The Field This Wekend?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You in Miami, Solo?

I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do. :p
 

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squirrels said:
You in Miami, Solo?

I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do. :p
Man I wish I was in Miami....

lol

I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
 

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Solomon said:
Man I wish I was in Miami....

lol

I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
 

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Squirrels said:
I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope
You hear a lot about how much game has helped some guys.
I've often wondered how many interactions it has messed up, especially before the guy finds some calibration.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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squirrels said:
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
 

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Solomon said:
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)
 

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I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)

aww man, where I was at was gorgeous, it was right by the big lake in the middle of the city. 2 chicks to 1 guy ratio, and of course I was the only black guy there which felt weird to me even though I'm use to it now living in a mostly white state. Didn't really game much since it was social circle and people were "cliquish". The guy that was "gaming" the hardest was a gay guy trying to make out with chicks or he was pretending to be gay lol

But yeah summertime man, I hit up the rooftop places, great scenery, beautiful women, and the chill laid back ambiance is top notch not like those teeny bopper clubs where people are running around being crazy lol
 

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WENT OUT LAST NIGHT Swear I ran into a Roosh V look a like lol

Tonight going to a lil hotel date with this chick well see how it goes, the weekend is open I have it of so Ill be stomping the pave for sure
 

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Good luck Solomon

I have a party bus rock concert tonight at 8pm we going to Ram's Head some place in Baltimore. That should be interesting...

Sat is georgia Ave day Carribean festival...perfect day for Day game ! :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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friday to sunday. an all out war!
 
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