"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Whose Hitting The Field This Wekend?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You in Miami, Solo?

I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do. :p
 

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squirrels said:
You in Miami, Solo?

I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do. :p
Man I wish I was in Miami....

lol

I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
 

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Solomon said:
Man I wish I was in Miami....

lol

I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
 

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Squirrels said:
I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope
You hear a lot about how much game has helped some guys.
I've often wondered how many interactions it has messed up, especially before the guy finds some calibration.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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squirrels said:
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
 

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Solomon said:
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)
 

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I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)

aww man, where I was at was gorgeous, it was right by the big lake in the middle of the city. 2 chicks to 1 guy ratio, and of course I was the only black guy there which felt weird to me even though I'm use to it now living in a mostly white state. Didn't really game much since it was social circle and people were "cliquish". The guy that was "gaming" the hardest was a gay guy trying to make out with chicks or he was pretending to be gay lol

But yeah summertime man, I hit up the rooftop places, great scenery, beautiful women, and the chill laid back ambiance is top notch not like those teeny bopper clubs where people are running around being crazy lol
 

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WENT OUT LAST NIGHT Swear I ran into a Roosh V look a like lol

Tonight going to a lil hotel date with this chick well see how it goes, the weekend is open I have it of so Ill be stomping the pave for sure
 

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Good luck Solomon

I have a party bus rock concert tonight at 8pm we going to Ram's Head some place in Baltimore. That should be interesting...

Sat is georgia Ave day Carribean festival...perfect day for Day game ! :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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