Solomon
Master Don Juan
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GLORY AWAITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GLORY AWAITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Man I wish I was in Miami....squirrels said:You in Miami, Solo?
I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do.![]()
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.Solomon said:Man I wish I was in Miami....
lol
I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
You hear a lot about how much game has helped some guys.Squirrels said:I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.
The middle-ground is something of a tightrope
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=successsquirrels said:I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.
I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.
I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.
The middle-ground is something of a tightrope.![]()
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air.Solomon said:Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success
If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)
Didn't go out on friday was to tired.
Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
squirrels said:I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air.![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.