“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Whose Hitting The Field This Wekend?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You in Miami, Solo?

I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do. :p
 

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Solomon said:
Man I wish I was in Miami....

lol

I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
 

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Squirrels said:
I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope
You hear a lot about how much game has helped some guys.
I've often wondered how many interactions it has messed up, especially before the guy finds some calibration.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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squirrels said:
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
 

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Solomon said:
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)
 

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squirrels said:
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)

aww man, where I was at was gorgeous, it was right by the big lake in the middle of the city. 2 chicks to 1 guy ratio, and of course I was the only black guy there which felt weird to me even though I'm use to it now living in a mostly white state. Didn't really game much since it was social circle and people were "cliquish". The guy that was "gaming" the hardest was a gay guy trying to make out with chicks or he was pretending to be gay lol

But yeah summertime man, I hit up the rooftop places, great scenery, beautiful women, and the chill laid back ambiance is top notch not like those teeny bopper clubs where people are running around being crazy lol
 

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Good luck Solomon

I have a party bus rock concert tonight at 8pm we going to Ram's Head some place in Baltimore. That should be interesting...

Sat is georgia Ave day Carribean festival...perfect day for Day game ! :)
 

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friday to sunday. an all out war!
 
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