"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whose Hitting The Field This Wekend?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You in Miami, Solo?

I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do. :p
 

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squirrels said:
You in Miami, Solo?

I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do. :p
Man I wish I was in Miami....

lol

I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
 

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Solomon said:
Man I wish I was in Miami....

lol

I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
 

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Squirrels said:
I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope
You hear a lot about how much game has helped some guys.
I've often wondered how many interactions it has messed up, especially before the guy finds some calibration.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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squirrels said:
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
 

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Solomon said:
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)
 

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I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)

aww man, where I was at was gorgeous, it was right by the big lake in the middle of the city. 2 chicks to 1 guy ratio, and of course I was the only black guy there which felt weird to me even though I'm use to it now living in a mostly white state. Didn't really game much since it was social circle and people were "cliquish". The guy that was "gaming" the hardest was a gay guy trying to make out with chicks or he was pretending to be gay lol

But yeah summertime man, I hit up the rooftop places, great scenery, beautiful women, and the chill laid back ambiance is top notch not like those teeny bopper clubs where people are running around being crazy lol
 

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WENT OUT LAST NIGHT Swear I ran into a Roosh V look a like lol

Tonight going to a lil hotel date with this chick well see how it goes, the weekend is open I have it of so Ill be stomping the pave for sure
 

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Good luck Solomon

I have a party bus rock concert tonight at 8pm we going to Ram's Head some place in Baltimore. That should be interesting...

Sat is georgia Ave day Carribean festival...perfect day for Day game ! :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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