Solomon
Master Don Juan
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GLORY AWAITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GLORY AWAITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Man I wish I was in Miami....squirrels said:You in Miami, Solo?
I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do.![]()
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.Solomon said:Man I wish I was in Miami....
lol
I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
You hear a lot about how much game has helped some guys.Squirrels said:I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.
The middle-ground is something of a tightrope
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=successsquirrels said:I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.
I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.
I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.
The middle-ground is something of a tightrope.![]()
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air.Solomon said:Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success
If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)
Didn't go out on friday was to tired.
Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
squirrels said:I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air.![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.