"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whose Hitting The Field This Wekend?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You in Miami, Solo?

I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do. :p
 

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squirrels said:
You in Miami, Solo?

I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do. :p
Man I wish I was in Miami....

lol

I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
 

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Solomon said:
Man I wish I was in Miami....

lol

I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
 

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Squirrels said:
I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope
You hear a lot about how much game has helped some guys.
I've often wondered how many interactions it has messed up, especially before the guy finds some calibration.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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squirrels said:
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.

I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.

I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.

The middle-ground is something of a tightrope. :p
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
 

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Solomon said:
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success

If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)

Didn't go out on friday was to tired.

Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)
 

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I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air. :)

aww man, where I was at was gorgeous, it was right by the big lake in the middle of the city. 2 chicks to 1 guy ratio, and of course I was the only black guy there which felt weird to me even though I'm use to it now living in a mostly white state. Didn't really game much since it was social circle and people were "cliquish". The guy that was "gaming" the hardest was a gay guy trying to make out with chicks or he was pretending to be gay lol

But yeah summertime man, I hit up the rooftop places, great scenery, beautiful women, and the chill laid back ambiance is top notch not like those teeny bopper clubs where people are running around being crazy lol
 

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WENT OUT LAST NIGHT Swear I ran into a Roosh V look a like lol

Tonight going to a lil hotel date with this chick well see how it goes, the weekend is open I have it of so Ill be stomping the pave for sure
 

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Good luck Solomon

I have a party bus rock concert tonight at 8pm we going to Ram's Head some place in Baltimore. That should be interesting...

Sat is georgia Ave day Carribean festival...perfect day for Day game ! :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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