Solomon
Master Don Juan
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GLORY AWAITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GLORY AWAITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Man I wish I was in Miami....squirrels said:You in Miami, Solo?
I NEED to get back "in the field"...just seems like there's always something else to do.![]()
I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.Solomon said:Man I wish I was in Miami....
lol
I'm going out tonight but the weather is ****ty
You hear a lot about how much game has helped some guys.Squirrels said:I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.
The middle-ground is something of a tightrope
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=successsquirrels said:I hear you. I don't get out on Friday's because I usually climb on Saturday mornings, and I have to work this Saturday night.
I've been using the Internet...but it's hit-and-miss. I've met a couple who seem like they're gonna be cool...and they let me down.
I think I make women nervous when I run "hard game". And then when I try to re-assure them by just being cool, they take it as a sign of weakness.
The middle-ground is something of a tightrope.![]()
I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air.Solomon said:Online game comes down to Good Pics+non-creepy profile/vibe+ rapid escalation=success
If your not meeting the chick within 5 days, your wasting your time(unless she lives out of town)
Didn't go out on friday was to tired.
Went out Saturday to a rooftop get together then out to the bars with my buddy and his friends nothing noteworthy to FR about
squirrels said:I wish there were more "rooftops" around here...I love to have a drink outside in the open air.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.