"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Where is the interest level scale??

Noseekey

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Can someone please link it?

I can’t find it and NEED it badly

Thank you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Someone on an old thread once posted the interest level scale stating different zones/tiers regarding how much interest a woman has toward you
For example
100-90 a fvck ton
89-80 a lot
79-70 ehh
Less than that was none but keeping you around for whatever reason.

just wanted to see the more detailed version
 

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She is interested if she is doing some legwork so you guys can meet and do stuff togheter

if she is making things difficult on purpose , you should try to be persistent a bit , just for her to know that you are interested and not a p8ssy , and then just back down and wait for her to start chasing :)
 

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Someone on an old thread once posted the interest level scale stating different zones/tiers regarding how much interest a woman has toward you
For example
100-90 a fvck ton
89-80 a lot
79-70 ehh
Less than that was none but keeping you around for whatever reason.

just wanted to see the more detailed version
This is just dumb. If she wants to see you she is interested. If you have sex she is interested.

If she backs off, you back off. Respond to texts and be upbeat and positive but don't initiate and don't try and get her to hang out immediately. Let her work for your time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interested: does everything you want
Not interested: makes excuses and kochblocks you at every turn
That is way too simplistic and if guys really believe this then I doubt they have relationships that last longer than a few months. There is always give and take in any long term relationship with someone and to suggest otherwise suggests a completely immature or unrealistic view of how relationships work.
 

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Where is the interest (edit: lowest) level scale??
Big fat dusgusting walrus of a chick?

That's gotta be a -100 on the scale... :eek: ;)

Whale = really fat =Subtract 50 points
Walrus = Distrusting fat lol = Subtract 100 points from the normal scare example above..
 
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I think that I have an idea where you are coming from. Personally speaking, if I've met a gal that seems to be a cut above the rest, my clarity has been known to become clouded. Despite certain claims on this forum, this is not "oneitus." Technically speaking, it's a dopamine spike (sort of like a temporary high or temporary lapse of reason). When this occurs, getting an outside perspective is usually a good idea.

Are you getting conflicting messages? Fill us in on some details and we'll attempt to provide you with some theories.

By the way, I see that you are newer here. Don't be fooled into thinking that everyone else here is a pro. Here's a tip. If you see a member overusing terms such as "cuck" "beta" or "alpha" ... chances are these are simple novices pretending to know more than they actrually do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That is way too simplistic and if guys really believe this then I doubt they have relationships that last longer than a few months. There is always give and take in any long term relationship with someone and to suggest otherwise suggests a completely immature or unrealistic view of how relationships work.
Interested: does everything you want
Not interested: makes excuses and kochblocks you at every turn

Obviously these are the extremes and there is everything in between.
 
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