"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where is the interest level scale??

Noseekey

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Can someone please link it?

I can’t find it and NEED it badly

Thank you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Noseekey

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Someone on an old thread once posted the interest level scale stating different zones/tiers regarding how much interest a woman has toward you
For example
100-90 a fvck ton
89-80 a lot
79-70 ehh
Less than that was none but keeping you around for whatever reason.

just wanted to see the more detailed version
 

Bigpapa

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She is interested if she is doing some legwork so you guys can meet and do stuff togheter

if she is making things difficult on purpose , you should try to be persistent a bit , just for her to know that you are interested and not a p8ssy , and then just back down and wait for her to start chasing :)
 

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Someone on an old thread once posted the interest level scale stating different zones/tiers regarding how much interest a woman has toward you
For example
100-90 a fvck ton
89-80 a lot
79-70 ehh
Less than that was none but keeping you around for whatever reason.

just wanted to see the more detailed version
This is just dumb. If she wants to see you she is interested. If you have sex she is interested.

If she backs off, you back off. Respond to texts and be upbeat and positive but don't initiate and don't try and get her to hang out immediately. Let her work for your time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Interested: does everything you want
Not interested: makes excuses and kochblocks you at every turn
That is way too simplistic and if guys really believe this then I doubt they have relationships that last longer than a few months. There is always give and take in any long term relationship with someone and to suggest otherwise suggests a completely immature or unrealistic view of how relationships work.
 

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Where is the interest (edit: lowest) level scale??
Big fat dusgusting walrus of a chick?

That's gotta be a -100 on the scale... :eek: ;)

Whale = really fat =Subtract 50 points
Walrus = Distrusting fat lol = Subtract 100 points from the normal scare example above..
 
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Black Widow Void

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I think that I have an idea where you are coming from. Personally speaking, if I've met a gal that seems to be a cut above the rest, my clarity has been known to become clouded. Despite certain claims on this forum, this is not "oneitus." Technically speaking, it's a dopamine spike (sort of like a temporary high or temporary lapse of reason). When this occurs, getting an outside perspective is usually a good idea.

Are you getting conflicting messages? Fill us in on some details and we'll attempt to provide you with some theories.

By the way, I see that you are newer here. Don't be fooled into thinking that everyone else here is a pro. Here's a tip. If you see a member overusing terms such as "cuck" "beta" or "alpha" ... chances are these are simple novices pretending to know more than they actrually do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That is way too simplistic and if guys really believe this then I doubt they have relationships that last longer than a few months. There is always give and take in any long term relationship with someone and to suggest otherwise suggests a completely immature or unrealistic view of how relationships work.
Interested: does everything you want
Not interested: makes excuses and kochblocks you at every turn

Obviously these are the extremes and there is everything in between.
 
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