"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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when a woman says "do you wanna F me" for a joke, what's a good response?

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when a woman says "do you wanna F me" for a joke, what's a good response?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"How much are you willing to pay me?"
 

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If you make it worth my while I might.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That's a sh1t test. Reply back, looking straight into her eyes and say "respect". That's how style would do it.
 

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prachanter said:
when a woman says "do you wanna F me" for a joke, what's a good response?
My answer if shes hot: Sure why not.

My answer if shes ugly: Hell no.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
That's a sh1t test. Reply back, looking straight into her eyes and say "respect". That's how style would do it.
UHHHH...

Style said that in response to "I give great head"


"I give great head" is a statement

"Do you want to F me" is a question

What are you thinking?


I would go with Fransisco's reply :crackup:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I had a chick ask me that recently at a party of mine.

I didn't hit it, but we were rubbing each other's naughty bits in the kitchen so I doubt she was joking.

In this situation I didn't say anything...I just kept on rubbing her pu$$y.

If you aren't already physical why not use this as an opportunity to GET physical?

If a chick asked me that I would take it as an invitation and kiss her right then. Remember....actions, not words. She can take it however she wants.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
That's a sh1t test. Reply back, looking straight into her eyes and say "respect". That's how style would do it.
did you rip that out of The Game?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kev07 said:
UHHHH...

Style said that in response to "I give great head"


"I give great head" is a statement

"Do you want to F me" is a question

What are you thinking?


I would go with Fransisco's reply :crackup:
Still doesn't change the fact it's a sh1t test. This girl is throwing herself on him, if he goes "wtf do you mean?" he fails, if he goes "yes, can we fvck now?" he fails, but looks at her smiles and goes "respect" then it's a pass, right?
 

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Hmmm.. (pause) are you any good?

Basically anything that asserts you're in a position of choice will get you laid.
Make her work for it a bit, but don't insult her unless you don't wanna get any.

Whoever said "respect" is an idiot, don't confuse yourself.
 

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prachanter said:
when a woman says "do you wanna F me" for a joke, what's a good response?
Sending mixed signals is key here. Give her a look in the eye like you want to f*ck then say, "sure, maybe after 8 beers".
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Still doesn't change the fact it's a sh1t test. This girl is throwing herself on him, if he goes "wtf do you mean?" he fails, if he goes "yes, can we fvck now?" he fails, but looks at her smiles and goes "respect" then it's a pass, right?
Sh1t test or not, she's flirting with him. Even if she's just bullsh1tting with him, why shouldn't he flirt back with something c/f? Why should he come off like an AFC or a stick in the mud?
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
That's a sh1t test. Reply back, looking straight into her eyes and say "respect". That's how style would do it.
Why are you giving advise on women? Though i generally don't read your troll posts, I read enough to understand that you're still a virgin. Virgins should listen to advise on this stuff, not give it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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