"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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whats wrong with doing the same exercise everytime?

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whats wrong with doing the same exercise everytime? Why do you need to do different variety of exercises?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To isolate different parts of a muscle.

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Well, it leads to overtraining. this spells : YOU WONT GROW! so if your like mostly every id1ot at the gym doing chest/arms every day...you aint ganna grow much..!
 

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I think he meant changing an exercise for a body part. If that was your question, you need to change cause your body get used to a certain movement & that causes you to stop growing & gaining strenght.
 

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ya, Aiken_Drum, thats my question. Damn, my english sucks. But what if i don't know how to do other exercises and I don't have the equipments?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Viroid:
To isolate different parts of a muscle.
I've heard that it's impossible to isolate "different parts" of a muscle.
 

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Originally posted by De La Soul:
I've heard that it's impossible to isolate "different parts" of a muscle.

Kinda sorta, i guess. There are some muscles that you cant isolate "different parts", like back or chest. Incline bench hits the upper chest, but is still working the entire chest. If your talking about muscles that have heads then its possible to a degree. Just depends on what muscle and what kind of movement.

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