"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What should a good tinder profile look like?
- Thread starter Prodoge
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
devilkingx2
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Prodoge
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Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
5 pics
1 shirtless
1 doing something cool(skydiving, motorcycle, playing with a big dog etc etc)
2 good face shots
1 hugged up on cute girl..(social proof)
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So what I'm saying is, you'd be better off asking a woman that uses Tinder what she is likely to gravitate to instead of asking us (other men).
blind_one
Master Don Juan
I would take all dating advice from women with a grain of salt, or with a whole bag of it.
It is mostly your pictures. My hobbies consist of snail racing, watching grass grow and two old school rock bands that barely anyone knows. My profile description is something along the lines that I am short, fat a boor and a thug, which the pictures clearly contradict. You might as well leave the profile blank with just pictures.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
oh your post implied that you were wondering what to look for in women's profiles
apparently your profile should just be the 5 sexiest pictures of you that exist, if you don't have any get some. aside from that anything goes(it's mostly looks on tinder at first, until you get matched)
Prodoge
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Dating apps in general or just Tinder ?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BeTheChange
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Speak for yourself mate...
Best pics up, spit some game and you could have a date every night of the week.
Then again I tend to attract your 18-30 crowd. Might be different for guys looking to hook up with older chicks.