"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What should a good tinder profile look like?

Prodoge

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Next week I'm off to college in a different city and thought i would give tinder a go to meet new people and see what comes out.
What should i watch out for ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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devilkingx2

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tinder is for hookups so if you're expecting to meet a good lay you're good to go just look for that, if you're expecting the love of your life... hahahahahahahahahahaha
 

Prodoge

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tinder is for hookups so if you're expecting to meet a good lay you're good to go just look for that, if you're expecting the love of your life... hahahahahahahahahahaha

Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
 

cola

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Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
5 pics

1 shirtless
1 doing something cool(skydiving, motorcycle, playing with a big dog etc etc)
2 good face shots
1 hugged up on cute girl..(social proof)
 

Von

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No need for a bio.... if you put one... better be funny and inviting
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ThePasses

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Someone I work with said that a girl he goes to school with gave him her phone so he could look through her Tinder. He said the girl's account had like 150+ notifications and that the girl said she has no intention of looking through all of the likes, matches, and messages. He went on to say that she mainly thumbs through the app for fun when she is bored. And supposedly this girl looks regular good but nothing spectacular.

So what I'm saying is, you'd be better off asking a woman that uses Tinder what she is likely to gravitate to instead of asking us (other men).
 

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So what I'm saying is, you'd be better off asking a woman that uses Tinder what she is likely to gravitate to instead of asking us (other men).
I would take all dating advice from women with a grain of salt, or with a whole bag of it.

It is mostly your pictures. My hobbies consist of snail racing, watching grass grow and two old school rock bands that barely anyone knows. My profile description is something along the lines that I am short, fat a boor and a thug, which the pictures clearly contradict. You might as well leave the profile blank with just pictures.
 

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Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
oh your post implied that you were wondering what to look for in women's profiles

apparently your profile should just be the 5 sexiest pictures of you that exist, if you don't have any get some. aside from that anything goes(it's mostly looks on tinder at first, until you get matched)
 

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Lol no such thing...tinder is mostly a waste of time
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BeTheChange

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Lol no such thing...tinder is mostly a waste of time
Speak for yourself mate...

Best pics up, spit some game and you could have a date every night of the week.

Then again I tend to attract your 18-30 crowd. Might be different for guys looking to hook up with older chicks.
 
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