Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What should a good tinder profile look like?
- Thread starter Prodoge
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
devilkingx2
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Prodoge
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Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
5 pics
1 shirtless
1 doing something cool(skydiving, motorcycle, playing with a big dog etc etc)
2 good face shots
1 hugged up on cute girl..(social proof)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
So what I'm saying is, you'd be better off asking a woman that uses Tinder what she is likely to gravitate to instead of asking us (other men).
blind_one
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I would take all dating advice from women with a grain of salt, or with a whole bag of it.
It is mostly your pictures. My hobbies consist of snail racing, watching grass grow and two old school rock bands that barely anyone knows. My profile description is something along the lines that I am short, fat a boor and a thug, which the pictures clearly contradict. You might as well leave the profile blank with just pictures.
devilkingx2
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oh your post implied that you were wondering what to look for in women's profiles
apparently your profile should just be the 5 sexiest pictures of you that exist, if you don't have any get some. aside from that anything goes(it's mostly looks on tinder at first, until you get matched)
Prodoge
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Dating apps in general or just Tinder ?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BeTheChange
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Speak for yourself mate...
Best pics up, spit some game and you could have a date every night of the week.
Then again I tend to attract your 18-30 crowd. Might be different for guys looking to hook up with older chicks.