"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What should a good tinder profile look like?
- Thread starter Prodoge
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
devilkingx2
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Prodoge
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Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
5 pics
1 shirtless
1 doing something cool(skydiving, motorcycle, playing with a big dog etc etc)
2 good face shots
1 hugged up on cute girl..(social proof)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So what I'm saying is, you'd be better off asking a woman that uses Tinder what she is likely to gravitate to instead of asking us (other men).
blind_one
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I would take all dating advice from women with a grain of salt, or with a whole bag of it.
It is mostly your pictures. My hobbies consist of snail racing, watching grass grow and two old school rock bands that barely anyone knows. My profile description is something along the lines that I am short, fat a boor and a thug, which the pictures clearly contradict. You might as well leave the profile blank with just pictures.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
oh your post implied that you were wondering what to look for in women's profiles
apparently your profile should just be the 5 sexiest pictures of you that exist, if you don't have any get some. aside from that anything goes(it's mostly looks on tinder at first, until you get matched)
Prodoge
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Dating apps in general or just Tinder ?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BeTheChange
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Speak for yourself mate...
Best pics up, spit some game and you could have a date every night of the week.
Then again I tend to attract your 18-30 crowd. Might be different for guys looking to hook up with older chicks.