"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What should a good tinder profile look like?

Prodoge

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Next week I'm off to college in a different city and thought i would give tinder a go to meet new people and see what comes out.
What should i watch out for ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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devilkingx2

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tinder is for hookups so if you're expecting to meet a good lay you're good to go just look for that, if you're expecting the love of your life... hahahahahahahahahahaha
 

Prodoge

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tinder is for hookups so if you're expecting to meet a good lay you're good to go just look for that, if you're expecting the love of your life... hahahahahahahahahahaha

Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
 

cola

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Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
5 pics

1 shirtless
1 doing something cool(skydiving, motorcycle, playing with a big dog etc etc)
2 good face shots
1 hugged up on cute girl..(social proof)
 

Von

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No need for a bio.... if you put one... better be funny and inviting
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ThePasses

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Someone I work with said that a girl he goes to school with gave him her phone so he could look through her Tinder. He said the girl's account had like 150+ notifications and that the girl said she has no intention of looking through all of the likes, matches, and messages. He went on to say that she mainly thumbs through the app for fun when she is bored. And supposedly this girl looks regular good but nothing spectacular.

So what I'm saying is, you'd be better off asking a woman that uses Tinder what she is likely to gravitate to instead of asking us (other men).
 

blind_one

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So what I'm saying is, you'd be better off asking a woman that uses Tinder what she is likely to gravitate to instead of asking us (other men).
I would take all dating advice from women with a grain of salt, or with a whole bag of it.

It is mostly your pictures. My hobbies consist of snail racing, watching grass grow and two old school rock bands that barely anyone knows. My profile description is something along the lines that I am short, fat a boor and a thug, which the pictures clearly contradict. You might as well leave the profile blank with just pictures.
 

devilkingx2

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Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
oh your post implied that you were wondering what to look for in women's profiles

apparently your profile should just be the 5 sexiest pictures of you that exist, if you don't have any get some. aside from that anything goes(it's mostly looks on tinder at first, until you get matched)
 

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Lol no such thing...tinder is mostly a waste of time
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BeTheChange

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Lol no such thing...tinder is mostly a waste of time
Speak for yourself mate...

Best pics up, spit some game and you could have a date every night of the week.

Then again I tend to attract your 18-30 crowd. Might be different for guys looking to hook up with older chicks.
 
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