“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What should a good tinder profile look like?

Prodoge

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Next week I'm off to college in a different city and thought i would give tinder a go to meet new people and see what comes out.
What should i watch out for ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tinder is for hookups so if you're expecting to meet a good lay you're good to go just look for that, if you're expecting the love of your life... hahahahahahahahahahaha
 

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tinder is for hookups so if you're expecting to meet a good lay you're good to go just look for that, if you're expecting the love of your life... hahahahahahahahahahaha

Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
 

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Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
5 pics

1 shirtless
1 doing something cool(skydiving, motorcycle, playing with a big dog etc etc)
2 good face shots
1 hugged up on cute girl..(social proof)
 

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No need for a bio.... if you put one... better be funny and inviting
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ThePasses

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Someone I work with said that a girl he goes to school with gave him her phone so he could look through her Tinder. He said the girl's account had like 150+ notifications and that the girl said she has no intention of looking through all of the likes, matches, and messages. He went on to say that she mainly thumbs through the app for fun when she is bored. And supposedly this girl looks regular good but nothing spectacular.

So what I'm saying is, you'd be better off asking a woman that uses Tinder what she is likely to gravitate to instead of asking us (other men).
 

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So what I'm saying is, you'd be better off asking a woman that uses Tinder what she is likely to gravitate to instead of asking us (other men).
I would take all dating advice from women with a grain of salt, or with a whole bag of it.

It is mostly your pictures. My hobbies consist of snail racing, watching grass grow and two old school rock bands that barely anyone knows. My profile description is something along the lines that I am short, fat a boor and a thug, which the pictures clearly contradict. You might as well leave the profile blank with just pictures.
 

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Fine but your evil laugh doesn't tell what my tinder profil should look like to have some success
oh your post implied that you were wondering what to look for in women's profiles

apparently your profile should just be the 5 sexiest pictures of you that exist, if you don't have any get some. aside from that anything goes(it's mostly looks on tinder at first, until you get matched)
 

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Lol no such thing...tinder is mostly a waste of time
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BeTheChange

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Lol no such thing...tinder is mostly a waste of time
Speak for yourself mate...

Best pics up, spit some game and you could have a date every night of the week.

Then again I tend to attract your 18-30 crowd. Might be different for guys looking to hook up with older chicks.
 
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