"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What happened to sazc?
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BackInTheGame78
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Really? For what? Telling incels the truth hahaha
Dash Riprock
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RickTheToad
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I think she turned down a date with one of the mods.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lamath
Master Don Juan
I liked Sazc too.
However i was often in disagreement with her advices, i felt her advice was not always coming from an unbias unemotional places.
Its always great to have different point of view, make us understand stuff in a deeper way.
Have not seen AJ either
However i was often in disagreement with her advices, i felt her advice was not always coming from an unbias unemotional places.
Its always great to have different point of view, make us understand stuff in a deeper way.
Have not seen AJ either
lamath
Master Don Juan
Too bad that both are gone. I liked AJ too
Problem was some ppl here were targeting them every post they made because they were women.
That can be triggering for anyone.
Beexcelent seems to create less wave because her way of thinking is more traditional red pill.
RickTheToad
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Here's the kicker, she initially agreed to meet him for a drink. He messaged her so much she had to block him on Facebook. Can't make this sh it up. The dude literally talks himself out of the possibility for some action with females. Perplexing to say the least.
RickTheToad
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Wrong, but cute handle by the way.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Igetit!
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Yep. She was just going to see if she could help him out in his dating with advice and tips in person since they lived near each other,but he went nuts constantly sending her private messages and harassing her.
So much.....to the point we had to temporarily ban him.
It's one thing to scare a chick off you try to date,but when you're so needy,desperate,and clingy that you scare your wingman off....Damn.
zekko
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Agreed. I know the female opinion isn't valued here, but I think it's good for the forum to have a few women's voices to represent them. Shouldn't be flooded with women (and I don't think there's any danger of that), but a few is healthy. Some posters here, it's probably the only time they ever get to talk with women lol.
Atom Smasher
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The problem with your argument is that women who hang out on a men's forum are far from representative of average women.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I said it before in another thread, but Big goal, big Neil, and big Dave are all 7 letter names... I can connect more dots as well... but I don't want the feds on me
Lol. I would never pay 1500 month rent for a fleamarket. If I did I'd just rent a kiosk in a mall and be open 7 days.
I really didnt want a date with Seekeroftheway BTW. I just seriously wanted to hangout with her. I wasn't attracted to her like that. She does yoga and that so I was hoping maybe she'd introduce me to some yoga studio chicks.
sazc was a girl?? dayum, didnt know. i followed her because i found her advises and posts quite useful.. or was it just me?? also seems like you guys know each other quite well?? i am a noob here, know no one and probably far away from you, though i still use advises from here.. ahhaha..
Black Widow Void
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Is there something you're not telling us....Stormider?
Your above response would suggest that you joined this site to fill a masculine void in your life and/or to ravish in other's masculinity.
Call me crazy, but I joined this site to share perspectives and also learn from the perspectives of others.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.