"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Probably. Studies have been done showing female forum users get more attention and even replies even you don't know what the person looks like.
3 months of talking abt how you can't assemble a simple contraption and you dare come here talking abt nonsense?

You better get that machine up by hook or by crook and stop wasting people's time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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3 months of talking abt how you can't assemble a simple contraption and you dare come here talking abt nonsense?

You better get that machine up by hook or by crook and stop wasting people's time.
Yes, you make a good point, @Spaz .

@biggoal , in another thread I even offered to download the manual and to give you personal guidance, but you ignored my offer to help.

Your excuse seems to be time, and the need to work on taxes. That's a BS excuse. Do you know how I know? Because you have plenty of time to post here on SoSuave.

Tomorrow morning, why don't you walk into that room, look at that monument to your fear and habit of avoidance, pick up that manual and finish the job? Men should know how to build and use tools. This kind of work builds confidence and self-reliance.
 

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Yes, you make a good point. @biggoal , in another thread I even offered to download the manual and to give you personal guidance, but you ignored my offer to help.

Your excuse seems to be time, and the need to work on taxes. That's a BS excuse. Do you know how I know? Because you have plenty of time to post here on SoSuave.

Tomorrow morning, why don't you walk into that room, look at that monument to your fear and habit of avoidance, pick up that manual and finish the job? Men should know how to build and use tools. This kind of work builds confidence and self-reliance.
@biggoal needs a temp. timeout like @bigdave17. The rest will help him refocus his priorities. He's like on SS 24/7.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes, you make a good point, @Spaz .

@biggoal , in another thread I even offered to download the manual and to give you personal guidance, but you ignored my offer to help.

Your excuse seems to be time, and the need to work on taxes. That's a BS excuse. Do you know how I know? Because you have plenty of time to post here on SoSuave.

Tomorrow morning, why don't you walk into that room, look at that monument to your fear and habit of avoidance, pick up that manual and finish the job? Men should know how to build and use tools. This kind of work builds confidence and self-reliance.
You might be right abt his fears and avoidance issues.

@biggoal needs a temp. timeout like @bigdave17. The rest will help him refocus his priorities. He's like on SS 24/7.
Nah. It's just time to chg tactics.

Banning never does work because it's just abt shoving a problem elsewhere.

A man comes here for help and help we shall.

Ignore all his attempts or posts unless it's about his gym equipment.

Refocus where its important.
 

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You might be right abt his fears and avoidance issues.



Nah. It's just time to chg tactics.

Banning never does work because it's just abt shoving a problem elsewhere.

A man comes here for help and help we shall.

Ignore all his attempts or posts unless it's about his gym equipment.

Refocus where its important.
Going to have to respectfully disagree with you dude. The boy needs a break. He doesn't listen. A person who doesn't listen cannot be helped.
 

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@biggoal , in another thread I even offered to download the manual and to give you personal guidance, but you ignored my offer to help.
That makes two of us. I PM'ed him and volunteered to speak to him by phone and his PM response was that I was too old. This seems to be a case of a horse being led to water, but not wanting to drink.

Normally, I'd wager that with age comes wisdom, but AttackFormation is about half my age and I think the guy is a genius.
 

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Going to have to respectfully disagree with you dude. The boy needs a break. He doesn't listen. A person who doesn't listen cannot be helped.
There's various methods at our disposal.

An arsenal of it.

For now, you can do ur part by not entertaining him and cutting off all interactions with him unless it's with regards to him getting his gym set up and running.

Be firm.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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