Black Sunshine
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I'd like to hear y'all say what having your "s**t" together means...
Thanks,
BlackSunshine
Thanks,
BlackSunshine
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What does it mean to you fellas, to "have your s**t together?
- Thread starter Black Sunshine
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dustmuffin
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Yep that covers it. You also need to keep your place clean and maintained. Have your finances in order. Just normal everyday stuff.
Tictac
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"I live for myself and answer to no one."
Steve McQueen
Steve McQueen
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logicallefty
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Stable income that you legitimately work or worked for, reliable transportation, the means and/or abilities to own and solve the problems that come up in your life without dumping them onto other people.
Dhoulmagus
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You would know if you did
Maximus Rex
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To not be dependent upon a job for your source of income. If you have "Eff you," money, and you can quit a job when it's no longer to your liking or the supervisor is actin' up, in addition to your standard of living, savings, and retirement funds aren't affected, then you have you're sh*t together.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I once had a crackhead tell me that I really had my sh!t together. I was thinking, "well, compared to you I do."
Black Sunshine
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I once had a crackhead tell me she'd do me and my friend for 20 bucks!
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Black Sunshine
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But thanks guys.... what you say is the foundation for confidence...
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
having a clear mind and conscious... also, having all the categories in place to do what needs to be done.
All important aspects of your life and life in general are covered by you. All branches of your life are treated with enough care that they are sustainable even while you aren't there all the time. Your family (parents) is taken care of. Your house is taken care of. Your businesses are taken care of. Clean home, clean office. You have a healthy system of life.
You feel secure in what you're doing and you're not afraid to take risks. You're spiritually strong enough to risk it all. You're able to sleep most nights peacefully because you know that your actions are in-tune with your goals.
My answer is pretty materialistic
You feel secure in what you're doing and you're not afraid to take risks. You're spiritually strong enough to risk it all. You're able to sleep most nights peacefully because you know that your actions are in-tune with your goals.
My answer is pretty materialistic
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.