Black Sunshine
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I'd like to hear y'all say what having your "s**t" together means...
Thanks,
BlackSunshine
Thanks,
BlackSunshine
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What does it mean to you fellas, to "have your s**t together?
- Thread starter Black Sunshine
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dustmuffin
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Yep that covers it. You also need to keep your place clean and maintained. Have your finances in order. Just normal everyday stuff.
Tictac
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"I live for myself and answer to no one."
Steve McQueen
Steve McQueen
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
logicallefty
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Stable income that you legitimately work or worked for, reliable transportation, the means and/or abilities to own and solve the problems that come up in your life without dumping them onto other people.
Dhoulmagus
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You would know if you did
Maximus Rex
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To not be dependent upon a job for your source of income. If you have "Eff you," money, and you can quit a job when it's no longer to your liking or the supervisor is actin' up, in addition to your standard of living, savings, and retirement funds aren't affected, then you have you're sh*t together.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I once had a crackhead tell me that I really had my sh!t together. I was thinking, "well, compared to you I do."
Black Sunshine
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I once had a crackhead tell me she'd do me and my friend for 20 bucks!
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Black Sunshine
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But thanks guys.... what you say is the foundation for confidence...
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
having a clear mind and conscious... also, having all the categories in place to do what needs to be done.
All important aspects of your life and life in general are covered by you. All branches of your life are treated with enough care that they are sustainable even while you aren't there all the time. Your family (parents) is taken care of. Your house is taken care of. Your businesses are taken care of. Clean home, clean office. You have a healthy system of life.
You feel secure in what you're doing and you're not afraid to take risks. You're spiritually strong enough to risk it all. You're able to sleep most nights peacefully because you know that your actions are in-tune with your goals.
My answer is pretty materialistic
You feel secure in what you're doing and you're not afraid to take risks. You're spiritually strong enough to risk it all. You're able to sleep most nights peacefully because you know that your actions are in-tune with your goals.
My answer is pretty materialistic
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.