What does it mean to you fellas, to "have your s**t together?

[Black Sunshine]

I'd like to hear y'all say what having your "s**t" together means...
Thanks,
BlackSunshine

 

[Tamura]

For me it means, having goals in life and pursuing them independently from anyone else and women especially. Being satisfied with what I have and what I do.

 

[marmel75]

Have your own place, have your own vehicle, have a career and /or own your own business, act like a responsible adult, not be in debt up to your eyeballs, and don't depend on anyone for anything.

 

[dustmuffin]

Have your own place, have your own vehicle, have a career and /or own your own business, act like a responsible adult, not be in debt up to your eyeballs, and don't depend on anyone for anything.

Yep that covers it. You also need to keep your place clean and maintained. Have your finances in order. Just normal everyday stuff.

 

[Tictac]

"I live for myself and answer to no one."
Steve McQueen

 

[bigneil]

It means you have the means to survive on your own for the next 30 days.

 

[logicallefty]

Stable income that you legitimately work or worked for, reliable transportation, the means and/or abilities to own and solve the problems that come up in your life without dumping them onto other people.

 

[El Payaso]

Being your own man.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

You would know if you did

 

[Maximus Rex]

To not be dependent upon a job for your source of income. If you have "Eff you," money, and you can quit a job when it's no longer to your liking or the supervisor is actin' up, in addition to your standard of living, savings, and retirement funds aren't affected, then you have you're sh*t together.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I once had a crackhead tell me that I really had my sh!t together. I was thinking, "well, compared to you I do."

 

[Black Sunshine]

I once had a crackhead tell me she'd do me and my friend for 20 bucks!

 

[Black Sunshine]

But thanks guys.... what you say is the foundation for confidence...

 

[wifehunter]

having a clear mind and conscious... also, having all the categories in place to do what needs to be done.

 

[oOh Nasty]

All important aspects of your life and life in general are covered by you. All branches of your life are treated with enough care that they are sustainable even while you aren't there all the time. Your family (parents) is taken care of. Your house is taken care of. Your businesses are taken care of. Clean home, clean office. You have a healthy system of life.

You feel secure in what you're doing and you're not afraid to take risks. You're spiritually strong enough to risk it all. You're able to sleep most nights peacefully because you know that your actions are in-tune with your goals.

My answer is pretty materialistic