Black Sunshine
Don Juan
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I'd like to hear y'all say what having your "s**t" together means...
Thanks,
BlackSunshine
Thanks,
BlackSunshine
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What does it mean to you fellas, to "have your s**t together?
- Thread starter Black Sunshine
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dustmuffin
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Yep that covers it. You also need to keep your place clean and maintained. Have your finances in order. Just normal everyday stuff.
Tictac
Banned
"I live for myself and answer to no one."
Steve McQueen
Steve McQueen
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
logicallefty
Moderator
Stable income that you legitimately work or worked for, reliable transportation, the means and/or abilities to own and solve the problems that come up in your life without dumping them onto other people.
Dhoulmagus
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You would know if you did
Maximus Rex
Banned
To not be dependent upon a job for your source of income. If you have "Eff you," money, and you can quit a job when it's no longer to your liking or the supervisor is actin' up, in addition to your standard of living, savings, and retirement funds aren't affected, then you have you're sh*t together.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I once had a crackhead tell me that I really had my sh!t together. I was thinking, "well, compared to you I do."
Black Sunshine
Don Juan
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I once had a crackhead tell me she'd do me and my friend for 20 bucks!
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Black Sunshine
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But thanks guys.... what you say is the foundation for confidence...
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
having a clear mind and conscious... also, having all the categories in place to do what needs to be done.
All important aspects of your life and life in general are covered by you. All branches of your life are treated with enough care that they are sustainable even while you aren't there all the time. Your family (parents) is taken care of. Your house is taken care of. Your businesses are taken care of. Clean home, clean office. You have a healthy system of life.
You feel secure in what you're doing and you're not afraid to take risks. You're spiritually strong enough to risk it all. You're able to sleep most nights peacefully because you know that your actions are in-tune with your goals.
My answer is pretty materialistic
You feel secure in what you're doing and you're not afraid to take risks. You're spiritually strong enough to risk it all. You're able to sleep most nights peacefully because you know that your actions are in-tune with your goals.
My answer is pretty materialistic
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.