What do you do when a girl you like is not physically available

[Dam44]

Hello everyone

I was wondering what you should do when you won't be seeing a girl you're interested in for like 2 to 3 months

Keep up via text or just let her be till when you guys are in the same location again

 

[In2theGame]

Hello everyone

I was wondering what you should do when you won't be seeing a girl you're interested in for like 2 to 3 months

Keep up via text or just let her be till when you guys are in the same location again

Let her be until she's around again 100%

 

[Billtx49]

Date other women until and if she’s in your area. Text her if you want, but stay busy with the women that are actually available to you…

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Hello everyone

I was wondering what you should do when you won't be seeing a girl you're interested in for like 2 to 3 months

Keep up via text or just let her be till when you guys are in the same location again

Maybe touch base once a week or every other week and work on meeting and dating other women.

 

[Dam44]

Thanks. I guess I agree with minimal conversation cos texting gets boring in situations like that

 

[OldComeBacker]

I agree with the general consensus of the other answers but also think it depends on what you've already established. You say you're interested in her and won't be seeing her for awhile but have you ever been with her?

 

[Dam44]

I agree with the general consensus of the other answers but also think it depends on what you've already established. You say you're interested in her and won't be seeing her for awhile but have you ever been with her?

No. Someone I know but we became physically separated before I made a move

 

[bat soup]

No. Someone I know but we became physically separated before I made a move

Do you actually know for a fact that she's interested or are you in first stage of the friend zone?

You should always make a move as quickly as possible to avoid situations just like this.

 

[Dam44]

Do you actually know for a fact that she's interested or are you in first stage of the friend zone?

You should always make a move as quickly as possible to avoid situations just like this.

I don't really know TBH but I don't think I'm in the friend one. My university has been closed since March due to COVID and I haven't been texting some at all

 

[bat soup]

I don't really know TBH but I don't think I'm in the friend one. My university has been closed since March due to COVID and I haven't been texting some at all

Friend zone type 1 is when you don't know where you stand because you didn't make a move.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

If you didn't have the chance to develop a strong bond beforehand you shouldn't even entertain the idea of this.

 

[OldComeBacker]

No. Someone I know but we became physically separated before I made a move

Then I would say you just have to move on and meet other girls. Should do that regardless, but if it's a girl nothing has ever happened with there's just no point worrying about her. We've all done it, but it's a waste of energy. maybe something will happen down the road, maybe it won't, but pining over her won't help you get her.

 

[Dam44]

Friend zone type 1 is when you don't know where you stand because you didn't make a move.

Lol, I'm going to change that. I don't just want to be dude that has asked out multiple girls within the same social circle.
I guess the real problem here is I'm not making an effort out of my social circle

 

[r4zorsharp]

Stop messing with her. don't have time for that.

 

[Dam44]

Stop messing with her. don't have time for that.

How am I messing with her

 

[Bigpapa]

How am I messing with her

make a move

 

[r4zorsharp]

How am I messing with her

I'm responding to your title. You said the girl is not physically available.. Your post says something different but either way it sounds like its time to move around man.. stop focusign on this girl you won't even see her for 2-3 months. abundance man.. abundance... theres girls id ont talk to for more than that long, and i don't even worry what they're thinking.. im focused on me and what i got going on

 

[Dam44]

make a move

Yeah, I would but not online

 

[Dam44]

I'm responding to your title. You said the girl is not physically available.. Your post says something different but either way it sounds like its time to move around man.. stop focusign on this girl you won't even see her for 2-3 months. abundance man.. abundance... theres girls id ont talk to for more than that long, and i don't even worry what they're thinking.. im focused on me and what i got going on

Alright, I get it now

 

[bat soup]

Lol, I'm going to change that. I don't just want to be dude that has asked out multiple girls within the same social circle.
I guess the real problem here is I'm not making an effort out of my social circle

It's better than being the guy that hasn't asked them out and is stuck in the friend zone.