That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
They're definitely Catholic vibe, there family oriented, yes I agree with the learning spanish part.....also get acquianted with their cuisine. Tamales, burritos, barbacoa, quesadillas, etc...know how to eat a good botana cheerfully at a family function.
Let's be rational about this. Do you really think this will give them the tingles?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
aren't you Latino yourself? You should realize by now that food is the way to the soul when it comes to certain culture. Nothing like being a smooth mofo and knowing what to do when you get served a certain dish and knowing how to prepare the condiments and ingredients and gather them all up together etc. These types of things not only build rapport, not just with her but with her family and friends. Im thinking in terms of relationships here long term wise.
Building rapport with her family has nothing to do with creating sexual attraction. Don't confuse being culturally accepted with being sexually desired.
Listen I admit I'm no Casanova, but I do get plenty of dates while in South East Asia and I know thing or two about being a gentleman. One when it comes to attraction, it boils down to not needing her approval, just a laid back calm presence, natural and having good social skills and figuring out the logistics of the date, If you got those things covered, you should be good to go, though I admit, my main weakness that I don't land a second date sometimes is because I'm not 'sexual' enough and don't kino her often as I should, because I'm rather conservative in that department and made a few platonic girlfriends in the long run, it's still a learning process for me and I've already had a few marriage talks with some of the long term prospects that I'm dating in South East Asia long term wise, like I said I'm just spinning my plates, the Christian way, while I'm out there and while I'm here in the states, might as well flirt with a few latinas at a few pubs, coffee shops, bookstores and all the venues I used to go to while I was here.
Getting dates in Southeast Asia as an American is hardly comparable. Being from the States is already an advantage in those markets. You have novelty and perceived status working in your favour before you even open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I notice when it comes to attraction, you can be the biggest dork in the world and if the girl happens to like you, she'll make it easier for you and be more understanding. You're right that attraction isn't a choice, well guess what? You can't attract all the girls you come across, you can only improve your batting percentage when you step up to the plate. As far as plates are concerned a Man is only as good as his options. I'm a dude who likes to have options in my life, not just with women, so I guess we'll call it as that - 'options'. Options and being able to be the selectee is a great thing to have and something this site preaches right? I'm doing it with my Tinder and Social circle. Personally I still refer to my options as Plates even though I'm doing it the Christian way. I'm not here to bash your way of life, But I've found my calling in God consciousness and walk that path. I also practice Semen retention and yoga in my everyday life and even when it comes to sex, I shall practice semen retention and sexual tantric/yogic union with my wife. A man should be able to control his ejaculation in the bedroom whenever he pleases and use that to bring a sense of enlightenment and have good masculine essence.
Being a gentlemen is all well and fine. But not at the expense of being sexual and turning them on.
I have no idea what you’re talking about.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You define what the meaning of success entails. I happen to enjoy a more drama free life because of this. There's plenty of pros in this lifestyle like not catching stds or unwanted pregnancy, not being drained physically because your practicing semen retention and spirituality, living independently from women's approval because you're not manipulated by the poontang lol.
A plate is a woman who you are regularly fvcking.
