What are your best pointers and tips for dating Latina Americans?

[Travel memoir21]

Anyone here happens to be a Latina connoisseur? As you know I happen to live in South Texas as my winter home in America each year and Hispanics happens to be the majority out here. Do you guys have some great pointers and tips for dating Latina Americans and getting involve in their culture?

 

[Captain Redbeard]

Learn spanish

 

[BillyPilgrim]

They generally put out (and put out kids) when they are young and turn into Catholic nuns when they're older. The libido starts out strong and then the guilt takes over (more so than white girls who are more consistent).

So get em while they're young.

 

[Travel memoir21]

They generally put out (and put out kids) when they are young and turn into Catholic nuns when they're older. The libido starts out strong and then the guilt takes over (more so than white girls who are more consistent).

So get em while they're young.

They're definitely Catholic vibe, there family oriented, yes I agree with the learning spanish part.....also get acquianted with their cuisine. Tamales, burritos, barbacoa, quesadillas, etc...know how to eat a good botana cheerfully at a family function.

 

[Clockwerk50]

1: Be attractive
2: Do not be unattractive

They're definitely Catholic vibe, there family oriented, yes I agree with the learning spanish part.....also get acquianted with their cuisine. Tamales, burritos, barbacoa, quesadillas, etc...know how to eat a good botana cheerfully at a family function.

Let's be rational about this. Do you really think this will give them the tingles?

 

[Travel memoir21]

1: Be attractive
2: Do not be unattractive


Let's be rational about this. Do you really think this will give them the tingles?

aren't you Latino yourself? You should realize by now that food is the way to the soul when it comes to certain culture. Nothing like being a smooth mofo and knowing what to do when you get served a certain dish and knowing how to prepare the condiments and ingredients and gather them all up together etc. These types of things not only build rapport, not just with her but with her family and friends. Im thinking in terms of relationships here long term wise.

 

[Clockwerk50]

aren't you Latino yourself? You should realize by now that food is the way to the soul when it comes to certain culture. Nothing like being a smooth mofo and knowing what to do when you get served a certain dish and knowing how to prepare the condiments and ingredients and gather them all up together etc. These types of things not only build rapport, not just with her but with her family and friends. Im thinking in terms of relationships here long term wise.

Building rapport with her family has nothing to do with creating sexual attraction. Don't confuse being culturally accepted with being sexually desired.

Maybe accept that you don't understand how attraction works before giving advice on how to build it. You might learn a thing or two.

 

[The Duke]

I put on my cahka-roh-cha killers, lather my self in cholula sauce, and down a 6 pack of Modelo and ride my donkey to town and the ninas bonita come running.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Building rapport with her family has nothing to do with creating sexual attraction. Don't confuse being culturally accepted with being sexually desired.

Maybe accept that you don't understand how attraction works before giving advice on how to build it. You might learn a thing or two.

Listen I admit I'm no Casanova, but I do get plenty of dates while in South East Asia and I know thing or two about being a gentleman. One when it comes to attraction, it boils down to not needing her approval, just a laid back calm presence, natural and having good social skills and figuring out the logistics of the date, If you got those things covered, you should be good to go, though I admit, my main weakness that I don't land a second date sometimes is because I'm not 'sexual' enough and don't kino her often as I should, because I'm rather conservative in that department and made a few platonic girlfriends in the long run, it's still a learning process for me and I've already had a few marriage talks with some of the long term prospects that I'm dating in South East Asia long term wise, like I said I'm just spinning my plates, the Christian way, while I'm out there and while I'm here in the states, might as well flirt with a few latinas at a few pubs, coffee shops, bookstores and all the venues I used to go to while I was here.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Listen I admit I'm no Casanova, but I do get plenty of dates while in South East Asia and I know thing or two about being a gentleman. One when it comes to attraction, it boils down to not needing her approval, just a laid back calm presence, natural and having good social skills and figuring out the logistics of the date, If you got those things covered, you should be good to go, though I admit, my main weakness that I don't land a second date sometimes is because I'm not 'sexual' enough and don't kino her often as I should, because I'm rather conservative in that department and made a few platonic girlfriends in the long run, it's still a learning process for me and I've already had a few marriage talks with some of the long term prospects that I'm dating in South East Asia long term wise, like I said I'm just spinning my plates, the Christian way, while I'm out there and while I'm here in the states, might as well flirt with a few latinas at a few pubs, coffee shops, bookstores and all the venues I used to go to while I was here.

Getting dates in Southeast Asia as an American is hardly comparable. Being from the States is already an advantage in those markets. You have novelty and perceived status working in your favour before you even open your mouth.

And for the umpteenth time, you’re using the word “plate” incorrectly. If you’re not sleeping with these women, you’re not spinning plates. You’re collecting female friends and entertaining marriage fantasies. More importantly, you’re not going to build the kind of life you’re envisioning with a woman unless she’s sexually attracted to you. Being a gentleman, having good social skills, and getting along with her family are not substitutes for sexual attraction. You admitted yourself that you struggle with sexual escalation and often end up in platonic relationships. That’s the issue you should be addressing instead of all this jumbo mumbo about being a gentleman and building rapport with her family.

You can be a gentleman, pursue marriage, and wait until sex until marriage. But none of that changes the fact that you first need to make a woman desire you. You’re putting the cart before the horse.