You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ok, so does it affect it? How fast would I notice a difference? What difference would I notice with myself? I don't know the exact number where I'm at I was just told I'm deficient in it.Stand outside for 30 minutes more each day with you arms showing so that the sunlight hits it.
If you live in the US, anyone north of a line running from Washington, DC to St. Louis is likely to be deficient because the sun is only strong enough to give us the proper amount of Vitamin D we need in the summer. Most peopel need between 8,000-10,000 IU's to remain at a good level. Vast majority of people are highly deficientStand outside for 30 minutes more each day with you arms showing so that the sunlight hits it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's not that straightforward. It depends a lot on the time of year, where you live and how strong the sunlight is. Also how dark your skin is plays a major role as well. People who have dark skin are almost guaranteed to have Vitamin D deficiency because their body absorbs it very poorly as it is a defense mechanism against producing too much Vitamin D as their ancestors were from places like Africa or South America where the sun is extremely strong for many months a year. If it was that straightforward 90% of the US wouldn't be Vitamin D deficientYour body makes vitamin D through sun, and I think it's a pretty simple and straightforward process if you only need around 30 minutes a day. I'd say maybe in a day or 2 or something. I don't know if it affects it, maybe indirectly. Just try getting some extra sun and see if it does.
You don't need to take extra calcium. Everything is already wrongly fortified with Calcium these days and you are already getting 6-8 Times as much calcium as you need.Vitamin D promotes testosterone. Take some calcium ad vitamin D tablets mix (better activated vitamin D -cholecalciferol-) And enjoy.
So you do think that this is the cause of the issue? Vitamin D Deficiency?Vitamin D promotes testosterone. Take some calcium ad vitamin D tablets mix (better activated vitamin D -cholecalciferol-) And enjoy.
Do you think the vitamin d Deficiency is the cause of this? How fast would I notice changes and what would change with my body?You don't need to take extra calcium. Everything is already wrongly fortified with Calcium these days and you are already getting 6-8 Times as much calcium as you need.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Huh? Vitamin D deficiency and taking too much Calcium have nothing to do with each other.Do you think the vitamin d Deficiency is the cause of this? How fast would I notice changes and what would change with my body?
No I'm saying I was told I have vitamin d Deficiency. They didn't say anything to me about calcium, I'm asking do you think the vitamin D deficiency is the cause of the erectile problems?Huh? Vitamin D deficiency and taking too much Calcium have nothing to do with each other.
Vitmain D can be the cause of a lot of problems. Low Vitamin D almost always = low testosterone so it wouldn't be surprising. Then again I feel bad for the youth these dfays...testosterone levels are at epidemic lows now and opnly getting worse...in 20 years, 15 year olds are gonna need to be on TRT.No I'm saying I was told I have vitamin d Deficiency. They didn't say anything to me about calcium, I'm asking do you think the vitamin D deficiency is the cause of the erectile problems?
Ok, how long do you think it would approximately take for me to get back to a good level? I'm just trying to figure out how to fix this lol.Vitmain D can be the cause of a lot of problems. Low Vitamin D almost always = low testosterone so it wouldn't be surprising. Then again I feel bad for the youth these dfays...testosterone levels are at epidemic lows now and opnly getting worse...in 20 years, 15 year olds are gonna need to be on TRT.
A few months if you do it consistently every day.Ok, how long do you think it would approximately take for me to get back to a good level? I'm just trying to figure out how to fix this lol.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You said you were going to get your testosterone levels checked. Have you had them checked yet? If so what were the results?Does Vitamin D Deficiency affect erections and libido? I'm 20 was just tested and was told I'm deficient.
IIRC calcium increases absorption of vitamin D, which is why they recommend taking them together.You don't need to take extra calcium. Everything is already wrongly fortified with Calcium these days and you are already getting 6-8 Times as much calcium as you need.
As a student in a bilogical major,vitamin D is an anti tumor agent(cancer) and as i recall it has to do with transportation of hormones across the blood stream(t3,t4) look it up thoDoes Vitamin D Deficiency affect erections and libido? I'm 20 was just tested and was told I'm deficient.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.