When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ok, so does it affect it? How fast would I notice a difference? What difference would I notice with myself? I don't know the exact number where I'm at I was just told I'm deficient in it.Stand outside for 30 minutes more each day with you arms showing so that the sunlight hits it.
If you live in the US, anyone north of a line running from Washington, DC to St. Louis is likely to be deficient because the sun is only strong enough to give us the proper amount of Vitamin D we need in the summer. Most peopel need between 8,000-10,000 IU's to remain at a good level. Vast majority of people are highly deficientStand outside for 30 minutes more each day with you arms showing so that the sunlight hits it.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It's not that straightforward. It depends a lot on the time of year, where you live and how strong the sunlight is. Also how dark your skin is plays a major role as well. People who have dark skin are almost guaranteed to have Vitamin D deficiency because their body absorbs it very poorly as it is a defense mechanism against producing too much Vitamin D as their ancestors were from places like Africa or South America where the sun is extremely strong for many months a year. If it was that straightforward 90% of the US wouldn't be Vitamin D deficientYour body makes vitamin D through sun, and I think it's a pretty simple and straightforward process if you only need around 30 minutes a day. I'd say maybe in a day or 2 or something. I don't know if it affects it, maybe indirectly. Just try getting some extra sun and see if it does.
You don't need to take extra calcium. Everything is already wrongly fortified with Calcium these days and you are already getting 6-8 Times as much calcium as you need.Vitamin D promotes testosterone. Take some calcium ad vitamin D tablets mix (better activated vitamin D -cholecalciferol-) And enjoy.
So you do think that this is the cause of the issue? Vitamin D Deficiency?Vitamin D promotes testosterone. Take some calcium ad vitamin D tablets mix (better activated vitamin D -cholecalciferol-) And enjoy.
Do you think the vitamin d Deficiency is the cause of this? How fast would I notice changes and what would change with my body?You don't need to take extra calcium. Everything is already wrongly fortified with Calcium these days and you are already getting 6-8 Times as much calcium as you need.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Huh? Vitamin D deficiency and taking too much Calcium have nothing to do with each other.Do you think the vitamin d Deficiency is the cause of this? How fast would I notice changes and what would change with my body?
No I'm saying I was told I have vitamin d Deficiency. They didn't say anything to me about calcium, I'm asking do you think the vitamin D deficiency is the cause of the erectile problems?Huh? Vitamin D deficiency and taking too much Calcium have nothing to do with each other.
Vitmain D can be the cause of a lot of problems. Low Vitamin D almost always = low testosterone so it wouldn't be surprising. Then again I feel bad for the youth these dfays...testosterone levels are at epidemic lows now and opnly getting worse...in 20 years, 15 year olds are gonna need to be on TRT.No I'm saying I was told I have vitamin d Deficiency. They didn't say anything to me about calcium, I'm asking do you think the vitamin D deficiency is the cause of the erectile problems?
Ok, how long do you think it would approximately take for me to get back to a good level? I'm just trying to figure out how to fix this lol.Vitmain D can be the cause of a lot of problems. Low Vitamin D almost always = low testosterone so it wouldn't be surprising. Then again I feel bad for the youth these dfays...testosterone levels are at epidemic lows now and opnly getting worse...in 20 years, 15 year olds are gonna need to be on TRT.
A few months if you do it consistently every day.Ok, how long do you think it would approximately take for me to get back to a good level? I'm just trying to figure out how to fix this lol.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You said you were going to get your testosterone levels checked. Have you had them checked yet? If so what were the results?Does Vitamin D Deficiency affect erections and libido? I'm 20 was just tested and was told I'm deficient.
IIRC calcium increases absorption of vitamin D, which is why they recommend taking them together.You don't need to take extra calcium. Everything is already wrongly fortified with Calcium these days and you are already getting 6-8 Times as much calcium as you need.
As a student in a bilogical major,vitamin D is an anti tumor agent(cancer) and as i recall it has to do with transportation of hormones across the blood stream(t3,t4) look it up thoDoes Vitamin D Deficiency affect erections and libido? I'm 20 was just tested and was told I'm deficient.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.