"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ketostix said:
Excellent info Zero. I forgot people out west consider Kansas the midwest. By midwest I meant Ohio, Michigan, Indiana, Illinois. but I agree with the difference. Heck even in the large city in my midwest state girls, girls try to emulate what you might find in say Los Angles or NY.And if you get out of the big city and into the smaller towns even within my state there's quite a bit of differences. But I agree with you about the differences between the regions.

What do you guys consider KS?
 

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I too believe in showing age and location and all that biz... Hell sometimes I wish I could see pictures too, like the man behind the words.
But honestly I think this subject keeps many people on the down-low, for one reason or another.

But yeah often I'm reading a post and thinking... is this kid like 14???
and then other times I'm thinking... this kids gotta be 14, I know it.
and you're right, considering the topic, Age and Experience have a lot to do with it.
 

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I disagree! I am from the midwest and the girls here aren't great at all. Of course there are beautiful girls, but the majority are so bitter and catty. They all say the same thing "i'm moving to LA, or NY, etc" and they act as if they are some sort of freaking celebrity. An overabundance of "AW's" circulate throughout the midwest.

I find girls in bigger cities and southern states to be better catches.
 

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I think this is really important. I just realized I didnt have mine up, and I changed it.

Whether you like it or not, age plays an important factor in giving advice, because with time comes experience.

There are master dj's posting here who might be 16. Now, even if a kid is dead on with his incites, you have to suspect he may not really have done everything he claims.

There are a couple of older guys posting here, around 40, that I dont always agree with, but I respect that they have 10 years on me, so I am apt to hear them out.

So, why not show your age. It establishes trust if nothing else.

I hear what your saying, but unfortunately age doesn't always equate to better advice, experience or wisdom on this board. If your looking for specific advice to your age range, spend more time in the Mature Man forum.





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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pimp-sicle said:
If your looking for specific advice to your age range, spend more time in the Mature Man forum.PIMP
I've never actually asked for any advice yet here. But, there is something I am am gearing up to ask about.

My concern with age is more about the feedback that posters give. SOme make strong arguments and I just wonder who is saying it.

Finally, I think it's great that so many young guys around here seem very mature in their thinking. If some 18 year old kid has the ability to correct a 35 year old, Id really like to know the age.
 

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With age comes wisdom, most of it learned the hard way...

I am 47, and been to hell and back in my life. I have been there, done that, got the t-shirt and lost it along with the car and house to my ex-wife.

Hopefully, I can dispense a bit of advice that might help others not to follow the same path as I did.

I wish the internet and site like this was around in the early eighties. I would have follow the advice of others and not messed up 17 years of my life !!
 

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Night Owl said:
With age comes wisdom, most of it learned the hard way...

I am 47, and been to hell and back in my life. I have been there, done that, got the t-shirt and lost it along with the car and house to my ex-wife.

Hopefully, I can dispense a bit of advice that might help others not to follow the same path as I did.

I wish the internet and site like this was around in the early eighties. I would have follow the advice of others and not messed up 17 years of my life !!
May father Don Juan have mercy toward you :)
 

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Ever wonder what some of the main people on here look like too? i mean thats not a factor with advice ive seen some guys who looked like the last guy to ever get laid getting the girls first but you can't help but be curious. like for example you got all these kids quoting pook and always talking about him and you wonder hmm what does he look like. just a thought
 

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for sure J-Bone. I always am curious to know what some of the guru's look like. Pook says alot of good things (i probably havent even read all his stuff) but I always have this thought that they could just be totally full of sh!t.
Some nerdy geek boy who stops posting when his mom calls him to dinner.

Even though they give great advice and have excellent attitudes when they have the time to think about it, they could be just fronting it all... that would be sad.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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^^^^^ Yes guys, I too have had these haunting thoughts.

I pondered that this whole forum could be 15 year old D n D nerds who assume an online DJ identity, and play the forum like some sorta fantasy game. Think about it, young geeks are smart, well read, and have alot of time on their hands. Scary :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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Randallpink83 said:
for sure J-Bone. I always am curious to know what some of the guru's look like. Pook says alot of good things (i probably havent even read all his stuff) but I always have this thought that they could just be totally full of sh!t.
Some nerdy geek boy who stops posting when his mom calls him to dinner.

Even though they give great advice and have excellent attitudes when they have the time to think about it, they could be just fronting it all... that would be sad.
lol thats funny. or imagine a famous movie star on here begging for advice to some girl who asked him for the time. :wave:
 

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I have posted my picture a few times.
 

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Age is far more a factor than location. ..
And experience is far more advantageous than age...
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
And experience is far more advantageous than age...
And experience comes with age, hopefully. This is why I must be respectful of you, Cisco. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm gonna bump this up until I start seeing some ages along with these strong opinions :D
 

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bigjohnson said:
I'm old enough to know better than to tell.
I dont see what the problem is. If your 15, you'll get a little more sh!t, If your between 20 and 40 you'll get more props, and if your a full senior, you might get voted into the Council of Elders, where your new name will be . . . da ta da

DARTH JOHNSON :D
 

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and i suppose my name will be J-Boner, after a long enduring carreer of teaching seduction and making porn. I can imagine my grandkids asking me questions when their parents aren't around.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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