The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

[Murk]

She is 24 so unlikely she has smashed hundreds of dudes.. but she does have depression and anxiety.. also drinks alot.. and been burnt by her ex..

All that comes into play

She drinks a lot and I remember you saying she used to party a lot - that's minimum 15 bodies right there. Damaged, confrontational, argumentative, she's trash.

 

[soulforge]

She drinks a lot and I remember you saying she used to party a lot - that's minimum 15 bodies right there. Damaged, confrontational, argumentative, she's trash.

Yes she used to go out alot and drink alot.. also addicted to social media and attention.

Definitely not long term wifey material here

 

[Fowo]

I broke up with my ex GF of 2 years recently and it was hard because I do love her, but love isn't enough when faced with so many red flags and billions of hotter younger, more compatible women out there.

Had similiar situation a month ago, except that it's been a 4 years long one and she didn't have that many red flags actually. But after finally realizing that we want different futures for ourselves I understood that sooner or later either her or me are going to get tired and not feel good with the direction we'd head to. I'm not into breaking up after 10+ years so despite such a long time together and feelings being strong, decided to grit my teeth and do it. It's better for both of us, even if it really sucks short term

 

[dude99]

Has anyone got into a relationship which felt somewhat toxic?

I would say most of us here have. It is probably how most guys find sosuave. If you feel the relationship is toxic then you did the right thing.

In the first 5 months she is going to be on her best behaviour and the best her she will ever be. If she is toxic this soon then you did the right thing. Guys need to remind themselves we are not put on this earth to entertain toxic women.